I have always an insecurity about arriage that it doesnt work. I think people get evenrually bore of each other. I love a guy but arriage isnt suiting me… I want to get married but I think eventually we will be fed up of each other
Hey friend. Really a curious and bold opening up of feelings. This fear that you have is totally natural and i want you to know that first and foremost.
I would suggest first jotting down what your goals are and what you seek in your life. Those are the primary things you need to consider cause relationship you engage must align with this part of your life too.
Now regarding marriage prior to marriage i would suggest you understanding the better half and getting to know each other more. Marriage is a huge life long commitment and i will be honest there is no such thing as happily ever after and forever love. Love will exist and happiness too but not always we are humans with multiple emotions if we all just had love and happiness world would have beem a much better place. Having said that i would suggest find the little things out first you know. The little moments of joy in every situation. Marriage can seem like a bane or a boon it depends on perspective. There will be fights and there will be moments of joy… There will be tears and there will be laughing through the nights… Its all a balance and once you find the little things of it engaging trust me it will be an easy flow for you the marriage concept. Just dont overthink too much and go in the flow for now dear friend. Take the tiny steps.
