I have a tendency to push people away when they become close to me. With the thought they will eventually leave me and so i do it before they do by being very verbally aggresive to them but they still choose to stay. I dont always mean the things i say but i say it till theu leave me and then i become more depressed. I want to break out of this pattern. I would be really grateful if someone could reach out and help!
Just be kind to people.Dont push people away when they get close to you.Some people will choose to say while some do not,nothing is permanent in this world.We just have to move on.
I have been very very kind to people! But I have seen and felt too much of back drops with such relationship so to protect myself from the pain of separation i do this. Since i was a child i have seen too much of family outbreaks and fights and seprations that i cant just overcome it now. I feel like i am not meant to develop or remain friends with any person
Yaar I doing the same thing , do let me know also how to come out of it, it’s really hurts as ihve been like these for years and Don’t have friends
