I have a question on my mind and i want you all to answer it.
Recently I told you that there was a guy in my life with whom I was not dating but we were more than friends. I was interested on him after on our very first talk. At that time, i was going through a breakup and the guy I like now, he knows about my breakup. After sometime, my ex came back and asked me to wait for him regarding marriage. I agreed to my ex to wait for him but he left me after an argument so I decided not to go back to him. I told this to the guy I like. Hardly a week after, I realised I love this guy. So I confessed my feelings to him. He said he loves me too.
Now the problem is, he keeps talking about s@x most of the time which I don’t like. I have told him about this but he keeps insisting it in some or the other way. His pros is that he asks about my mental health too and my other problems too. But he doesn’t want to commit to me as he wishes to focus on his career or provide any relationship security and still wants to be more than friends and talk about s@x related things.
I am being as friends with him now and asked him to be with me as friends. It’s not really working, i get jealous when he talks to multiple girls.
Note: - it’s a long distance one and we had s@x chat after confessing our feelings once.
Because of all these, he says everything happens according to me and i keep telling no no to s@x talks which he don’t like. I even say no to hugs now. He wants to hug me without clothes which I disagree.
We had s@x chat once after confessing our feelings once. But it’s long distance.
This is my situation right now 😢😢😢😢
What are you doing to get over it?
I have gone through similar situation so it’s my genuine advice to cut off from him…hr is only using you for temporary pleasures …he will never marry you …these kind of boys approach girls first for their physical satisfaction and will show you that they really love you so that you get trapped and when you give him all the things he wants he will start to ignore you …when you will act emotional then, he is gonna make you feel that you are behaving weird ।…so don’t fall into this trap…true love wil never leave you even if you won’t give him that thing…he will wait till marriage. And it is perhaps better decision to be intimate after marriage only .
