I have a friend that I am very close to, and I’ve started to catch feelings for him. We work together a lot on projects, eat together, and practice together so I got over-attached just by spending more time with him. I really enjoy the conversations we have about music, morality, and family, so we get along really well. He’s genuinely a good person so I want to keep him around for a long time beyond college as a friend. That’s why I am trying to get rid of these feelings, but I guess it’s not as easy as I thought it would be… It’s literally eating at me every night. I’ve also never been in a relationship, so I don’t know what to do.
Why don’t you confess your feelings to him? Just let him know and tell him that you don’t expect the same or you’re not forcing him for anything but you are just letting him know.
Easier said than done haha I’m scared to lose a precious friend
What if he thinks the same about you and he’s scared to confess too?
