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Anonymous

I have 6 years of relationship with a person. This person is everything I want in a man. He made me a better and sensible woman.
During this time we have hurt each other but have sincerely apologised and grown together .
The problem is, for the last one year, we were constantly fighting petty fights that would end up in me apologizing. I would think in my mind that this is the last time. It will get better. But I was wrong, the fights grew in intensity and frequency with me apologising and running away from the problem instead of facing them in fear of abandonment.

This led to, a resentment in me for the things I left unsaid and. He formed a perception of me being the guilty one . Now, this caused him to expect me to justify his wrong actions he knows are wrong but as I have been making so many mistakes myself. I was doing nothing but saying sorry for the past 1.5 years in the name of love.

Today, it hit me. I needed to speak the truth. I threw up everything dug deep in my mind during a fight. Now, he thinks our love and relationship was fake for him and me both. But I did it for love and to be with him.

Was I so wrong that my relationship became fake? How to fix this?

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Anonymous

Sit and talk
Make him understand.
Like where he is doing mistake and where you did it by not speaking up that time …
Best wishes for same 🤞🙏

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Anonymous

He told me not to mesg or call. I am thinking of waiting for him to reconnect so he can digest everything that just happened. Its almost morning. I don’t feel confused or sad now. I hope we are able to work through this.

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Anonymous

You can … just give him time and space as needed…
All the best you both can do it 👍😊

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Anonymous

I wonder this

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Anonymous

Love can be define in two categories
1.) with communication
2.) without communication

You guys where going through 2nd situation…. Juts hear clearly Mam .!!!
You guys go out by train for long 10 hour journey … you just say what u meant by Love …. Then the problem will be solved … but but when u travel, just say in ur heart , the guy am talking with is my entire world … so the rest everything will be go smooth Mam ………don’t worry mam … don’t think too much… everything is happening for reason … here the reason is , you and him … just say …
be calm and talk …just hug him and say , shall we clean our heart for hours … don’t worry mam … the story is already written … you are blessed women … you will have great family with him ……

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Anonymous

Thankyou so much. I needed this. I hope we can leave the past behind

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Anonymous

He said not to call or messege. So I hv decided to let him contact me. Let us see how it goes. Idk when he will call me

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Anonymous

Why have u been banned from this platform?

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