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@raha1212

I have 2 friends! I thought they like me because I really like them! Today I was chatting with one of them. I wrote: I am really lucky to have you as my friend and I said it from the bottom of my heart then he answered (yes) and then he said something in his language! I asked him what it meant. He said:(nothing). Then I translated it and that was it: (but I hate you) I was surprised.

Then I asked him does it mean I hate you!!!???
but he sent a laughing emoji and said no this is not exactly this ! But he lied and then I said I did’nt expect it!! It was something new

and he just said yes then he said I want to watch something! bye !!!

And I still can’t understand! He was one of my best friends !!! He waits for me to come to school for lunch, and he was always with me! But it seems like he hates me!

I don’t know why?!?! HOW ?!? What did I do ?!? If he hates me why was he always with me ???Was it my problem ?!?

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Simran @st1199

Hey!
I think you should ask him this directly. Don’t let him escape rather tell him I (you) want to talk and sort this out and why do you feel this way and how long has it been? You would know everything and have answers to your questions.

I really hope it turns out to be something else than what we think it is. Also, you don’t have to blame yourself for anything. I too am into thinking why would he, on one hand, be helpful towards you and on the other hand hate you. Is there any motive behind helping you or something else, he is the best one to tell.

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Anonymous

Hey! I’m sorry that you have to go through that. But if he has been with you for so long, then maybe he just said it out of mere sarcasm. I’m sure he must have not meant it. I know it sounds weird that he dodged the question and ran away when you asked him, but I would suggest confronting him once again. If you both are close to each other, he’d be honest with you about what he feels.
Don’t worry, it will work out for the best!

lyla @ineedfriends

i think you should talk to him in person if things don work out don worry iĺl be your new bff

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