Why so?
I don’t know just recurring thoughts about how I’m not the person who i want to be. And then i act a certain way and i believe myself to be a certain different way.
What you want to be?
I think i want to be this person who has many friends and is loved by everyone. But then when i show any negative emotions, people aren’t around me. And then i hate myself.
Well what you see as u wanna be may be have many traits which u can’t see… Being among people is a hard job these days… People are horrible for some reason… Having one good friend is more than anything now
Aakifah @kifah
Hey
You are valued and loved
Everyone is unique in their own way
If you want to talk about it
I am here for you
Thank you so much. I think i hate myself the most when i show any form of emotions other than being happy. I get mad at myself for being sad or angry.
Aakifah @kifah
I understand
But u see showing emotions is what makes us human
We were created in such a way that we express ourselves through so many different emotions
There is no one who doesn’t feel
It’s a human thing uk
Aakifah @kifah
It’s okay to be sad or unhappy
Don’t think of others just think of yourself do what you like, do what you actually want to do at that moment and I’m telling you from my personal experience you don’t have to be liked by everyone just be you and I’m sure you’ll be liked by people. Because in this world everyone crave for geniune people not the one who pretends because that is what makes your personality so vibrant that people attract to that vibe just be who you are that’s it. Being liked by people is very different from being people’s person. Be there for them, be kind down to earth and that what makes you people’s person because just being liked by people is not a real thing because you don’t know what someone may like about you and the same thing might be hated by other person.
Right so fucking true. And i used to be like that. But now I’ve become this people pleasing person that i can no longer relate to.