I hate my life, I thought I liked this guy, so I told him and he liked me back. A few months later I realized I was Bi but still thought I was way more into guys. I soon realized that I didn’t like him. But I was and am too scared to tell him that I’m not interested anymore. So we’ve been on two dates and everyone thinks we like each other, but it’s not true. I also told him I was bi but not too into girls, turns out, I’m Asexual as well and im mostly into girls. Then my friend said that she liked me and I accidently said me too, she asked for me to be her gf and I told her that I actually don’t like her, and now we’re chill. But now I love my best friend and she is bi, but is really into this guy and idk if she likes me. She gives me signs that she’s interested, but is always talking about him. She also almost has an online girlfriend. UGH i’ll post more later.
wayyy to complicated, and only way out is just say whatever you feel, even if your feelings are changed talk about it to respective person. Otherwise its not being true to them as well as yourself and then there’s no fun in liking or loving someone, you will get this hint of guilt.
Thanks, that really helps, im planning on telling the guy that im not interested anymore, just so that he doesn’t ask me to date him are anything, and I will probably tell my best friend that I like her and whatever happens, happens.
i am glad that i could help you. Just go with the flow