I hate my family including my brother,why’s life so hard?I’ve keeping my anger all the time since I was a little until now and I don’t know if I can keep this up,every time i see them I say in my mind
"is their life happy?"because mine it wasn’t and I’m a good person before but so many things happen because of my family’s attitude towards to me and now I’m a bitch person now and I hate myself being in here and pretending I love them so much and remembering all painful words everyday and crying every night like crazy,and I do anything to make myself happy and forgot everything. I’m tired of everything.
Maybe u need to learn on how to ignore what you should ignore and focus on what is important?Beside,hating people is tired.Cause its never ending.But,we also cant avoid them.So,the best thing is just to accept how something is.Forget the hate and love things.What make you happy and healthy,then,focus on them.What make you sad and down,learn from them.Do u know Ava Max songs Everytime I cry?Its said,I ll get stronger whenever I cry.But trust me,hating will only weigh you down.If they are happy while you not,why should be envious while you also can do something that can make u happy?And,letting go of hates can lead you on being emotionally free.Its okay to be sad and having mental breakdown,but,dont let them stop and blind you from more important things for you.Beside,if we always wanna be happy without sadness,will w e know what happiness truly is and we will.never know how colourful life is.Just give yourself time and the world some times for them to change.If ppl treat you bad,and u admitted that they affect you,wont it will be a pleasure for them?Instead,you should be happy and enjoy your life without being affected by negativity and only let positivity to enter your peaceful mind.Then,u will know how to learn to ignore and focus on trivial things.Have a nice day!
thank your for your advice:)I appreciate it but I think you are right maybe i should just ignore everything that can hurt me everyday…
yupp.Because,there are much more things that can make you happy as long you want to ignore what hurting you.Sometimes,things are not really how we see them :)
