I hate my dad. He has no courtesy, no compassion towards others, no common sense, no chivalry, does not respect my mom. Does not have basic human values, screams ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Raises his voice on all of us ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Talks bad of the dead people. Is relieved when someone is in misery. Emotionally abuses my brother. He is happy when my brother and I fight. Does not listen to anybody. He is the most selfish, most toxic person I have ever met in my entire life. 

Hey buddy, I can tell that he's not a very decent human being from your words but I really hope that doesnt affect you at a very large extent. There's anger in your words and I just want you to know that we're all so proud of you for accepting the fact about your father and not being like him. There's so much more happiness coming your way and you're so strong!!! 
Much much love and power to you ❤
I'm sorry if I said someone offensive, really didn't mean to hurt you xx

Emotional Abuse

My dad gets irritated easily when I immediately give response to him then he yells at me, swears at me😔.

Anxiety

Um so I get angry at my dad a lot and I can't keep it in and if I burst out I am Afariad of what might happen
That's all ig


Anger Issues

Yes, u r my father. No one can change that. I don’t hate u but I still can’t forgive u and I don’t wanna hear anything from u.

Family

My dad Is always Yelling at Me. He always Makes me Feel I am worthless and Always Orders me to do things. Now I am Not Liking Him anymore because its been happening Since years I AM DONE WITH HIM.

Parenting

hi guys,
i feel so stuck at the moment. my mum is with a guy that constantly drinks and when he does he gets mean and passes out on the couch. my mum always defends him and says "he has a lot on his plate right now " or " he hasn't been drinking as much" they fight all the time even when she denies it. his been a complete a**hole to me the whole time I've known him, he called me horrible names and said things like "you wonder why your dad doesn't want you" i never got an apology instead i got yelled at for showing attitude back to him after he said those things and he never got in trouble. every time he drinks it takes a massive toll on me and i sometimes i need to just talk to someone about it rather than bottling it up . my mum told me "if you say anything to anyone i will be VERY mad " and "i wouldn't tell anyone about your business " so i cant talk to no one about it and especially her as she always gets defensive and I'm always the bad guy in the end. Every time me and him get into a fight they always use things against me such as "his good enough when he can buy you things" .its such a toxic household and i feel so trapped.

Wanted to vent out here. 
Dad’s behaviour towards rest 3 family members is very rude. No matter how hard we try to get things done for him. No matter how we care and love him … his behaviour is very rough for us. Talking in comments/ taunting form, shout on us on very normal things…
At the same time he is very happy and normal when meeting any other person. 
It’s has been really long seeing this behaviour of his. We are so exhausted and trautmatised with this behaviour that even his loud word from his mouth brings tears….
We are still doing are best managing home, managing other things and helping him. Taking care of his health and other things… still this kind of rude behaviour breaks me and my daughter sometimes… if feels like running away from here. The person we care most for is not giving love or at least polite words that we deserve… I feel very sad today… I 


I have a huge issue about argues, i do not like them i above them. I remember my parents they had problems and i used to hide my mother about things to avoid her to start shouting to my dad. Every day i was afraid of that moments of shouts and fights. I was 6 years old and i was able to know that an action may cause a fight. The worst day of my life was the day i had beg my mother to stop fighting and she told me to shut up and said that i cried for stupid things. In that moment she did not care about me, or the day that i locked myself in my bedroom and i was watching tv and i looked through the window, and i found my dad bleeding and leaving home. He would always call and my mother would take the call and hung up. My dad was always there for me. I was 6 years old and i knew everything about my parents. My mother used to use a dating app and talk with men. And then she would blame my dad about very small things. on the top of dad she would throw him stuff and make him bleed. I saw it. I saw my mother going to social services and say that my dad was abusive. Absolutely a lie, i was there my dad never shout at her, never hit her, never. For some reason they never did something. So many time i compare myself to my dad in this situation. Everytime my mom shout at me and she would provoque me, i would stare at her and do not say anything, because i am tired. I cry at night and at the morning i have to smile as nothing happened.

i used say that i hate my dad, he was abusive, all this time i was carrying the trauma, im learning to let it all go. he's my dad after all. i never thought ill let go of all of those. it feels strange but am trying. ik my dad loves me. but sometimes i just can't help but hate him. am i weird ?

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