anatarika roy @steady_baby
I had strong feelings for someone, but I wasn’t sure if it was just attraction or love. This person was my senior at work, and we spoke for the first time when I called him about some issues. A year later, we reconnected over a call, and our conversations became longer and more frequent. We spent time talking on the phone, traveling together, and even participating in official Google Meet calls. We now work in the same office and have been in each other’s lives for two years. We’ve had our share of arguments, both personal and professional, but we always manage to resolve our differences.
We have a friends-with-benefits type of relationship, and while I love him, he doesn’t feel the same way. We had previously discussed the possibility of a relationship and marriage, but now I find myself unable to control my emotions for him. I can’t even imagine being with anyone else or having a future without him. I’m not sure what lies ahead for me.
Raza Khan @thegentleguide
Honestly, it’s all on you Antarika. Speak to him, if he’s clearly not up for a marriage then it’s not necessary to give someone the liberty to hurt you. You deserve a man who is real, truthful and committed to you. Most girls fall in these kinds of relationships and end falling in love with men who just care for them as a friend (if they do). For now, if you yourself feel that you will be hurt by being with him, disconnect and allow yourself the space and time to heal.
Approach him… And face the result.
Atleast… You will understand where u have to stop.
Otherwise you can just carry on as its going. Live the life with the flow.