I had my life’s first breakup earlier this January. it all ended on a very bitter note. since then we are not in contact. I controlled myself to new levels and didn’t even try to check up on that person. I didn’t even stalk their profile nor did I made myself weak enough to go back and look at our pictures. I am starting to forget his face too and it feels calming in a wierd way. but now the mutual friend that we had who earlier unfollowed me has sent me follow request and he (the guy) has tried to get in contact with my bestfriend, sent her a follow request. I don’t know what he’s upto. I don’t know what does he want from me now. I feel anxious and I know very well I’m going to overthink and stress over this thing as if I didn’t have enough problems to take tension for. I am anticipating the worse.
Sanket @sanket
Having a look at the pictures with the ex is not being weak, yes, of course, it brings back those memories and the pain too, but you know what, looking at those pictures and not feeling anything would be a sign of being strong. You need to get that level of normalization
