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I had expressed my love feelings to her, and she didn’t reply to my message.
Now, I am asking your opinion whether she likes me or not after reading the following message I sent to her…

My message to her:
And, the reason I wrote the email to principal regarding to implement Uniform in college was…because my counsellor had told me to delete all the chats with you and focus on studies, so then I followed her advice and I deleted the chats with you, so after deleting all the WhatsApp chats with you, then the chat was empty so I was unaware that I enabled Disappearing messages with the new chats so after deleting the chats with you, it was mentioned that Disappearing messages is enabled with your chat so I thought you enabled the Disappearing messages with my chat (I was unaware that it was actually me…I realized it later) so that was the trigger to write the message in class group to suggest Remedial classes, subject presentations, Parents Meeting.
So afterwards I researched and came to a close conclusion that when I fall in love with you that time, you wore sleeveless dress (thus light fall on you and exposed your beauty to me and I experienced a experience - let’s call that love). Now you may question, there are many girls in the college who used to wear western dress so why I don’t experience love with them?
Maybe it’s because they’re exposing their beauty but it’s cosmetic and in your case, it’s natural beauty which is very few in 21st century and that’s why I experience a strong feeling with you. I don’t know the other parameters why I experienced love feelings with you. Means on the first day of your college in the classroom, when you sat next to my bench, that time I got feared and afraid of you(I was trying to resist the love feelings from you, because I give importance to Career means for a person will fear pimple if he or she give importance to skin care, similarly at that time, I was afraid of being in love with you because I used to give priority to Career. I was so afraid that I was shifting the bench in which I was sitting, I was trying to escape that situation and innermost I was crying a little bit, I was too nervous)
Anyway… So, to avoid further love experience with any girl, I suggested the Principal to implement strict Uniform dress code, thus covering their body to not expose their beauty.
Note: If a modern girl expose their beauty, nothing will happen to me.

Now, I told this thing to you because for the past 1 month, you were coming into my dreams everyday.

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Isse feelings ka expression keh rha hai tu bhai
Isse accha to tu sidha likh deta i have feelings for you …
Ye to un questions ka solution lag wo hote nhi hein ki briefly illustrate this phenomenon….
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So, what do you think? Why didn’t she reply to the message? Any possible reason?

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Arey bhai usse laga hoga koi article glti se chat mein transfer ho gya hai
Ye sab delete kar aur fir sahi se baat kar poori kahani mtt suna seedhe seedhe btt krle
Ye western dress aur indian dress wali bkhodi mtt krio bilkul bhi πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ€πŸΌ
All the best jo dil mein seedha seedha bol dio mst πŸ™πŸ»

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Mahek Rathod @m3

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Bro, I didn’t read it full. When you send something to someone just say it in one line or few lines. When they ask anything answer it in few line. Thats a simple philosophy of having a conversation.

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Yes, I told her that I love her and she said that she don’t love me but she and I are classmates and we sometimes talk related to studies and she used to smile and look at me.

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She is friendly so she smiles at you
If she doesn’t have feelings, it’s her choice
Don’t confuse love with friendship
Maybe she just wants to casual as friends! Nothing more buddy

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once she knew that I love her, the very next day onwards she used to get flirty nature with my friends and making my friends to be her college project member.

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I think I told her that I love her and along with that I told her that I want to give first priority to my Career, that’s why I feel that she told me that she don’t love me.

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There’s a debate in my mind: Sometimes, my mind says to accept Goal statement and not Girl statement and to get inspired by Chanakya and Dr. APJ Abdul kalam or Newton as they lived a celibate lifestyle and sometimes in some part of my mind, I feel that if I resist the love feelings for her, then I feel sick (lovesickness)

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Okay simple question: goal or love of your life?

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Goal

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Then do that !
Stop the debate in your mind
You will automatically get over this sickness!
Just do what it’s gonna bring happiness in the end

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Sometimes, I strongly feel that what if she comes in person and say this same question, β€œLove or Goal?” And if I tell her that I chose Goal statement and reject her, then I feel that she will then say to me that if I reject her then she will commit Suicide, so here it’s making me weakness in achieving my Goal.

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Dude?! Do you even know how strong her feelings are ?!
Why will she commit suicide if someone choose to have career has priority
Think about it, she has her career and life ahead too
Don’t you think she’ll understand and move on even if she gets a no from you

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maybe she likes me and don’t want to tell me because I am having first priority for Career thus she may feel hopeless (in the sense that even if she loves me, she cannot propose to me) that’s why she may commit Suicide without writing a Suicide note (in which my name is mentioned, means she will not blame me because I feel that she loves me) and commit Suicide.

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she said me to focus on career.
I asked her, have you fallen in love with me even for a single moment? Then she replied, β€œWhat if I say No?”

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Ya if she says no it clearly means you have to move on n focus on your career

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Nice to have a conversation with you:)

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