I had a toxic relationship…it wasnt toxic initially…it was the best thing i had…i loved him with all my heart…then things went wrong and it turned toxic to such a level that i cant even describe…he even verbally abused my parents…my mother …n then he kicked me out of his life…after 2 months he came back …he is in daily contact with me…he want to be in contact but doesnt want the relationship…i had prayed with all my heart that he shud return…but now that he is there i am confused should i even be talking to him with whatever he has done to me n said about my parents…m unable to forget the past but also unable to control my feelings for him
Okay, Hey. I understand toxic relationships, I have been in one.
Don’t go back in any relationship, if a person can leave you once, he can do it again.
Secondly, it is great that you understand your relationship is toxic. Say to him loud and clear that I DON’T WANT YOU IN MY LIFE. I think I can understand the boy a little bit, what happened is that he understood the power, the control he have on you, this is a heady feeling. And he wants to feel that again, that’s why coming back and staying connected and all that. If you allow that person again in your life, the situation will get back to where it was eventually. So, avoid that. And if you really want to be with that person or he would not go away, ask him to get help or something, therapy maybe. He may have some unresolved trauma, and unresolved trauma just hurts everyone around.
Try getting help from your local police if needs be.
He did the same thing again…talked nicely for a few days…n then started ignoring me …blocked my calls…not replying to my msgs…its been a month now…n m going crazy again…contantly checking wther he is online ? Has he read my msgs…i feel like fool now…m stuck…n really lonely…i want to move away…but m no able to…i do it for a few days n den go back checking for him…i feel like iv lost all control over myself…i cant take it anymore
