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Shunya 🔆 @chosenone

i had a question and i think you can help me out.

what if when you ask a girl out and she says ‘i’m taken’ but ‘i’d be happy to hang out as friends’…

i have two interpretations
1) she wants a guy to cure her boredom while in a relationship with someone else. so typical nice guy to hang out with who she can use

2) she’s not happy in her relationship and looking to get out and wants to make sure she has someone else before she breaks up. so looking for a back up

what makes it a bit confusing is the fact that she claims that she has kissed only 1 guy in her years of existence, and that’s the only guy she has been with. so she’s either a serial monogamist or a plain liar. that’s what confuses me

what do you think of it? i’d love to hear your perspective

MY RESPONSE:

I’ll answer your second point first.

A woman is ALWAYS looking for potential options to replace her man.

This is why it’s so important to stay on top of your shit when you’re in a relationship, especially since she will try to turn you into a beta male.

As for her having kissed only one guy, I cannot say unless i know more about her.

I know, I know. Flash News: you cannot tell everything about a woman with one statement 🤣

Now, coming to the first point:

The same response.

A WOMAN IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR MEN SHE CAN PASS TIME WITH EVEN WHEN SHE’s in a RELATIONSHIP 🤣

Women will literally waste your entire day if you let them.

Lesson- Don’t micro analyze every single statement she says.

Is she the kind of woman you can see yourself friendzoning and using as a winggirl?

If yes, keep in touch.
If no, wish her well.

Sinple really 🥂

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lish @uhm_unknown

Don’t you think the guy she is with isn’t good enough for her that is why she says hang out as friends to the person who asked her out???

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