I had a breakup around 9 1/2 months back. I know it’s a very long time, but I’m still not over him. I love him way too much. I’m still in the 10th grade so I know that there isn’t any future and that it would end sometime soon but we were perfect together and it wasn’t meant to be like this. I know I’m young for this and I don’t know how I can feel so strongly for someone, I just know that I really really really miss him. We’re on good terms as of now, and we talk as friends, honestly I’m okay with that because it reminds me of our good times. But from a last few days I feel like talking to him makes me fall for him even harder each and every day. I don’t know if it’s okay to be like this, I don’t know how to get over him, the thing is maybe I don’t wanna get over him. I don’t know what to do, but my feelings are so strong it’s killing me. 

Hey i would just say one thing! forget it and focus on your career or highschool!

That's a true feeling of love, u have done ur part but destiny is not in ur hand , just left him free, if he is made 4 u he is definitely gonna come back but if there is nothing between u , just preserve that beautiful feeling for the right man  !

Nope. Don't let your feelings overpower you. Just cry, be miserable but don't go back talking to him. 
Eat icecream, watch movies, play games,sleep, study but literally restrict yourself from texting that person. Girls need to get this thing in their heads that NO BOY LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF.

Breakup

Is it okay if your boyfriend is talking to his friends till 2 am and when you call him his call is busy and he doesn't even text you asking why did you call at this hour or call you back at all

Relationships

I’m in a ldr 
Earlier, when we were in the same country with no time difference, my guy had all the time in the world for me
Now I’m asking this cause I really have a lot of feelings for him 
So he has moved abroad for higher studies and he says that he has too much work and because of that he is mostly busy and doesn’t have time. I understood in the beginning 1 month. But now he calls once in 3-4 days and never texts me. Even after repeatedly telling how how and what I’m feeling it’s like he is a completely different person now with so much pressure from college and managing things on his own. 
Recently he said that he doesn’t have the same feelings like he had earlier. Now I don’t know should I hold on to him or let him go. 


Long Distance Relationship

so I had friends with benefits with one of my greatest friend we had if you watch misunderstanding and fight because of one of his friend and I was somewhere at fault too.so after that he has stopped talking to me and has been ignoring me he ignores my presence as if I have vanished from this whole world. This started affecting me I was getting affected too much I was feeling as a Someone is squeezing my heart . So I had a conversation with him and I requested him not to ignore my presence as its affecting me very badly. so he agreed to it we had a DEAL that he will not ignore my presents but neither will I talk to him nor will he talk to me . but whenever we see each other or pass by he'll just give a smile that's it. I had tagged this whole affecting thing because of his ignorance as due to emotional attachment but sometimes I feel is it just an emotional attachment or is it something more do I feel something more   guys I'm dying out of confusion someone help me solve this out and clear my confusion

Confusion

I'm in a situation where I'm separating from my partner of 7 years. We have multiple children together and he has raised my oldest every 7 years. Without getting into too much detail we both definitely done wrong but I was the first to strike. However the last three and a half years it's just been tumultuous and I'm always in the wrong. Recently I had someone close to me pass away and my whole world shattered and I definitely reacted negatively towards my partner and then after that I just thought there was no help. He asked me to take a large house which I passed but after that point in a relationship it was over. The lie detector instructor told me that this test won't do nothing because continue to blame me and he just needs help so when I asked him to get help he refused to get any therapy. Then after that every part of our relationship was attacked to the point where we can't even be friends and we're stuck in the same house together until the lease is up I'm just miserable heartbroken angry sad desperate all at the same time I try to make right with him at the end and he went back to accusing me of crazy things harassing me it's treating me like I was nothing. I'm not saying I haven't been bad to him but these last 6 months he is definitely made it and things I've done have made it work I just know my heart we're done and can't move forward from this I'll never change my kids will never see us together it's just really hard.

I have relation with someone and we really love each other like everything is perfect in us. We share same thoughts and interests and our understanding level is awesome but the problem is he can't marry me because of caste issue and we both already knew it but we decided to go with flow and live in present but now my family is pressuring me for marriage and now he himself suggesting me to go for arrange marriage. I am confuse to how should I react actually???? Means I already knew it was going to happen but his reaction...
wasn't expected that from him means I thought he might feel bad or sad something and even if he felt he won't tell me. I don't know what to do now

Love

So I like a guy who likes me back. We've never met officially in person but I've known him for 2 years now. We're not in a relationship neither are we a couple because we don't want to be in relationship online. Now I know I'm just overthinking maybe about everything. But he is friends with a girl and they hangout almost everyday with other friends of course. But like birthdays and events and morning group hangouts with friends. I'm not the jealous kind of person but I feel like he doesn't like me.... As much as I like him anymore..... I feel We were much closer last year. I've talked about his friend and my overthinking with him... And he said he still cares for me and stuff but why do I feel like he's just saying that without any particular feelings. Probably I'm wrong about the situation, I mean he's a really good guy but it's just I feel so exhausted with these overthinking thoughts and insecurities and I don't want to hurt my own feelings by expecting too much or caring too much.
 
Anyone who can relate even a little? And anyone who read it, what should I do and what do y'all think? 

P. S. I'm sorry for blabbering so much randomly and if you actually read it all, thankyou for noticing and have a beautiful day, you beautiful human being ❤



#15..........I gave my first semester exams and went home for diwali. Though I had to return back after 4 days so it wasn't much like a vacation. I was feeling homesick and alone. I very thought of coming back to college in the crowd of unknown people or fair weather friends was sickening me. I missed my home for the first time since the first time. My flight landed and I took a cab to my college. On my way back just out of curiosity I did something that i have never done before. I downloaded Tinder. After swiping left on few guy I found someone who looked decent and without thinking much swiped right on him. The very next moment we got matched. I started talking to him over text. I reached college but all the while I kept chatting with him over text. Soon we exchanged numbers and after a week of just talking we decided to meet up..........(to be continued) 





3am Thoughts

alright, so here is my thing which I am going through. There might be someone with the same feeling or situation. It would be very long story so get your drinks and popcorn 

So, I have a friend who is very close to me at least from my side. We have been friends since 3+ years. Did university together and studied the same course. So basically, everything was all good when we were in university. Then came a 8 months break between us. then finally we met and everything was same between us. we shared everything what happened in those months and shared the same friendship we had. 

Interesting twist was that I had never drank alcohol in my life. I had this fascinating thought that why not try vodka with him for the first time. I am all excited. mind you he has been drinking as long as i remember. So nothing new for him. Well, we drank at his home. And the next thing which is obvious is we made out. Well, that was a big shock for me because i never saw him in that way ever before neither he saw me like that. Well.. days passed. But we never talked as such about it. Then one fine day, he was drunk on a Saturday night i guess and he called me. I live with my family and share a room so obviously couldn't receive the call. the next day he called me again saying he feels stupid now to call me when drunk. I said its all good. but now whenever he gets drunk he calls and basically we are sexting. 

Once we met and we kissed. it was my first ever kiss that i loved. It was not just the kiss but the moment we shared. Well, as of now our relation is complicated . Obviously we are not just friends nor in a bf/gf relationship. I tried to meet him but i know he is busy with his life since he is an international student and its imp for him to work. he always confess how he love the make out that day or the kiss but never when he is sober. I am confused now where I stand in his life. either I am important to him or not. either should I talk him normally or just do not talk him at all. his friendship is important for me more than what we have now. Also it is hard for me not to text him because he is the only friend i have whom i share my entire life with. At times, i struggle and feel helpless. 

Just a confused 23 year old who has just started to experience all romantic stuff in her life 😅😅. 

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