I had a best friend. Now i donβt have him. Because he lashed out then he lied to me. We had a pretty bitter fallout. He didnβt even apologize. Now he has conveniently replaced me. He laughs around and talks to 2 other girls. I have to see him in class everyday and get reminded of all the things. It hurts badly. We had promised to stay together forever now we donβt even talk. We act like strangers in a room. I really miss him but i canβt do anything about it. It all just hurts. I have no one to love and care for me anymore. I feel betrayed . I just canβt trust anyone anymore.
Donβt then
Itβs just one of the many, take it from someone who has had many broken friendships. Itβs a part of life where people change or drift apart from you, Also, it only hurts the first time, every other friendship breakup is easier
the less you care, the better it is. Self love above everything. Get new and better friends.
I started caring after a long time. I didnβt really trust anyone or let any friend get as close as him. I have been ditched many times before. He knew that . Still he ended up being just like others and hurt me all over again
Why do you need ppl to love you
Love yourself
Dont think about him and start talking to other ppl
Slowly and gradually you can and will move on
Dont trust, dont depend. Enjoy ur life.
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Hey, I understand loosing a bestfriend is the WORST FEELING EVERβ¦ Itβs hard to manage youβre days throughout arround himβ¦ Iβm sorry but I feel he never considered this as bestfriendshipβ¦ If he did, he would talk to you and sort out and never let go of youβ¦ And wouldnβt replace you by others.
Youβre right at this point you cannot do anything about youβre bond with him.
You have to live with this bitter truth that he WAS yours, not nowβ¦ You have to move on, first things first take off all his memories from your phone or room or anywhereβ¦ Itβs very hard to manage it alone, neither me nor anyone here will ever know what you are dealing with, no matter how many pretty words you use, itβs just you who know your situationβ¦
Itβs brutal to move onβ¦ But donβt forget, some day everyone is ment to leave some or the other one, be it be death after 90 years, you need to have a stone heart at times in these situationsβ¦
You are not alone, you have yourself, the most trustworthy, amazing, pretty, adorable and best person youβll every meetβ¦
Talk to yourself, write down a diaryβ¦ And make sure to treat him the way he is treating youβ¦ Itβs okay to give people the taste of their own medicine sometimesβ¦
Iβm not at all telling you to go make 2 new friendsβ¦ No no
But show him that you can live as happy as you were, with or without him, and actually even more happierβ¦
Work on yourself, youβre passion, youβre hobby, studies, make yourself a better person than you are todayβ¦
You are not alone, this platform is there for you to share everything you feelβ¦
Take care
Good luck.
Thank youuuu so much! This helps more than you can imagine. I am trying to divert my attention and focus on better things. But at some or the other point i get reminded of him and then i really miss him. I am better than a month ago. Ig eventually i will be more better .
But i just tear up every time i think of him. Even small things like when my shoe laces come off he used to tie them up or when he used to carry around my bag or just spam stickers or just wait till my cab arrives then he used to leave for his home. Every little thing he cared for me. I really miss that. And i keep hoping he will text back one day saying he is sorry and he was wrong but it pains to know that would never happen and i have to move on.
It happened with many people so its just part of life and u not alone
Yeah ig i will get through it eventually