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I had a best friend. Now i don’t have him. Because he lashed out then he lied to me. We had a pretty bitter fallout. He didn’t even apologize. Now he has conveniently replaced me. He laughs around and talks to 2 other girls. I have to see him in class everyday and get reminded of all the things. It hurts badly. We had promised to stay together forever now we don’t even talk. We act like strangers in a room. I really miss him but i can’t do anything about it. It all just hurts. I have no one to love and care for me anymore. I feel betrayed . I just can’t trust anyone anymore.

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Anonymous
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Don’t then

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Anonymous
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It’s just one of the many, take it from someone who has had many broken friendships. It’s a part of life where people change or drift apart from you, Also, it only hurts the first time, every other friendship breakup is easier

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Anonymous
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the less you care, the better it is. Self love above everything. Get new and better friends.

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Anonymous
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I started caring after a long time. I didn’t really trust anyone or let any friend get as close as him. I have been ditched many times before. He knew that . Still he ended up being just like others and hurt me all over again

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Why do you need ppl to love you
Love yourself
Dont think about him and start talking to other ppl
Slowly and gradually you can and will move on

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Dont trust, dont depend. Enjoy ur life.

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Hey, I understand loosing a bestfriend is the WORST FEELING EVER… It’s hard to manage you’re days throughout arround him… I’m sorry but I feel he never considered this as bestfriendship… If he did, he would talk to you and sort out and never let go of you… And wouldn’t replace you by others.

You’re right at this point you cannot do anything about you’re bond with him.

You have to live with this bitter truth that he WAS yours, not now… You have to move on, first things first take off all his memories from your phone or room or anywhere… It’s very hard to manage it alone, neither me nor anyone here will ever know what you are dealing with, no matter how many pretty words you use, it’s just you who know your situation…

It’s brutal to move on… But don’t forget, some day everyone is ment to leave some or the other one, be it be death after 90 years, you need to have a stone heart at times in these situations…

You are not alone, you have yourself, the most trustworthy, amazing, pretty, adorable and best person you’ll every meet…

Talk to yourself, write down a diary… And make sure to treat him the way he is treating you… It’s okay to give people the taste of their own medicine sometimes…

I’m not at all telling you to go make 2 new friends… No no

But show him that you can live as happy as you were, with or without him, and actually even more happier…

Work on yourself, you’re passion, you’re hobby, studies, make yourself a better person than you are today…

You are not alone, this platform is there for you to share everything you feel…

Take care
Good luck.

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Thank youuuu so much! This helps more than you can imagine. I am trying to divert my attention and focus on better things. But at some or the other point i get reminded of him and then i really miss him. I am better than a month ago. Ig eventually i will be more better .

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But i just tear up every time i think of him. Even small things like when my shoe laces come off he used to tie them up or when he used to carry around my bag or just spam stickers or just wait till my cab arrives then he used to leave for his home. Every little thing he cared for me. I really miss that. And i keep hoping he will text back one day saying he is sorry and he was wrong but it pains to know that would never happen and i have to move on.

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Anonymous
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It happened with many people so its just part of life and u not alone

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Anonymous
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Yeah ig i will get through it eventually

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