I got a crush in my school and we arenāt classmate i talk to him but surprisely weve been chatting for a month on social media like a relationshipš we chat 24/7 but were not in a relationship i told him that let pretend we dont know in school and he said yes and he said he dont talk much in person and heās kindapopular in our school many girls liked him and these days we were really like on and off relationship but for now we r good and theres one girl who really like him also some people ship them and somehow people know abt our convo and that girl start to unlike me but mh crush said he didnāt do anything or say, and before we met my crush and that girl used to talk so much and stay together at school like standing together and chatting but after we talked to each other they never talk to each other and that girl showed that she dislikes me, i also asked him if she was his gf bf if it is i donāt wanna break someoneās relationship but he said no and everytime i talked abt her he never says much and only replies to my message at first my crush was kinda cold and short temper but now even when i triend to make him angry he never gets angry, even when we argued apologised but the thing is that we were not dating and dont want yo talk to me in person but his friendz know abt me they also come to my class with his friends to look me when we talked to e.o but havent know me, at first he dont know me and i dont want him to know me but he kept asking me who i am and my daily life he now knows me and he always make eye contact but i am always the firSt to look away Bc i was too nervous but he gave me mix feelings what do yāall think abt it i was so confused And sorry for my bad english
Hemanth @hemxnth_kxj
Txtin isnāt love ā¦ Personal experience
I am really into him i really tried to move on but i canāt š¤§
Whatās ur age ? Ur still in growing phase of life ā¦ U would catch feelings for every third person u would talk ā¦ So believe itās jus abt time
16
Can u please tell/help me what to do abt this problem?š„ŗ
Hemanth @hemxnth_kxj
See even i had many things goin with me when i was 16 but didnāt meant it would stay for life ā¦anyhow all the best for whatever u decide
Hemanth @hemxnth_kxj
I was in a similar situation and i went with what we said ā¦ We in sense what me and her decided but yep it didnāt worked out ā¦ So go with ur gut feeling and whatever the result would be atleast u wonāt be feelin guilty
Thank you so much for ur advice and i hope u r doing well, u r such a kind hearted person thank you for listening.
I know am a good listener but not kind hearted ā¦ Anyway all the best buddy
Is this really what you should be focusing on right now in school? All these feelings that you are having its not love, its just attraction, you wont even understand what love is till much later in life when you grow up, your just a kid, its not like if the guy likes you back you will get married now right? Dont put so much focus on a guy that it will disturb you from your studies, its ok if you dont have a boyfriend, but its definitely not ok if you dont do well in exams and cant make a good career, your life wont be good if you dont have a good carreer, many people regret not studying well in school later in thier lives, so dont do that mistake,so just keep this aside its not important, you have a lot of time later in life to have relationshipsā¦now is not the timeā¦enjoy school and studies with friends, guys will always be there later in life tooā¦
Thank you for ur kind words and advice i will keep it on my mind iād never got such a good advice like this! Again thank you sooo much i can imagine my future when i read your advice how bad it would be if i donāt get good grades thank youā¦
Brother i am school graduate and i can guarantee u that passing marks are enough until u understand the basic concepts ā¦ But u didnāt understand ur concepts then the grades are of no use in future tbh
I know these school love feelings ā¦we all have experienced this ā¦ dekho iss age aur life k phase me na ye feelings bht common hain lekin abhi jb tm 7-8 saal baad sochogi toh lgega ki m kitni bewakoof thi jo in sb me time waste kia ā¦aaj jo acha lg rha zaruri nhi ki wo kuch saal baad b acha lge ā¦aur ye jo drd wali feeling h wo bht obvious haiā¦apne career aur future pr dhyn do aage tmhe sahi time pr ek sahi insaan mil jaega jo hmesha tmhare sth rhega tmhe uske liye preshan b nhi hona pdega
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