I get really scared when people start shouting. In one way or the other, i think that it’s because of me. Even though I’m not even related to it. When my dad used to be angry, we weren’t supposed to talk, make noise, or do anything out of the blue. Idk i grew up being terrified of making him angry. It mainly stems from the fact that my family still use the phrase, " you’re dad will kill you". Idk if it’s discipline or trauma.
a agarwal @abcanjali
same gere
a agarwal @abcanjali
here
How are we supposed to deal with this?
a agarwal @abcanjali
i just treated him his way but it just bittered my relationship with him. Earlier he was mad at me bcz i was an idiot now he’s mad at me bcz I’m opinionated and partially independent
Yeah true. They always take you as a kid. They won’t accept you for who you are. But that’s hypocritical in the sense that i don’t accept my parents just the way they don’t accept me.