I fight with all my friends. I can stay as friends only upto some threshold after that I can’t bear the bonding. Why is that so?
Because your a human 😅
See what I feel is you are bit egoistic and a short tempered one you get triggered easily maybe aisa ho ya na bhi ho this is what I feel and you do expect a lot from the other end and when they fail to fulfill those expectations then the bond tampers these could be the reason not asking you to change these stuffs but to limit them maybe it helps