I’ feeling so low , cause of my dad’s illogical fights. My exams are around the corner. So i usually sit outside with my grandfather who was a professor. He helps me study. We also talk a lot and it’s one of my comfortable moments.
But, i don’t know why my papa does not like it. He hit me on the head and told me to never sit with my grandfather again.
Anyone please give advice how do i deal with this. I don’t want to make him understand cause i don’t think he will listen . This is driving me nuts
It will be better if you ask about it to both of your father and grandfather…
Akash @me_nonenity
1st try to understand what’s in your father head, then try to configure how to rid off.
I have talked to him.
And i really hate how immature he’s being.
I told him he’s jealous thats why he gets annoyed. He said that my grandfather is not a tight person to be with company. He tells me to study alone and also said that he’s not gonna pay my fees. How the hell would you study then?
He said that he won’t send me to foreign countries for study and many more hurtful things.
But i didn’t cry after that because in a corner of my mind. I knew that he was going to say it.
He is my father and i have to accept him.but i can’t help hating him when he is being like this
**Right person
You can talk to himwhich will exhaust you because some people never changes but you can try. If it’s not working you should speak to your Grandfather when your father’s not at home.
Focus on your studies because this is your ultimate goal and such situations will only make you grow and make you resilient.
I try to concentrate on my studies. But its hard when they’re so many worries.
I tried talking and making him understand that it helps me study. That its also a little fun.
But no, he doesn’t want to listen. He has created a toxic environment at my home. I want to change it, but u don’t know how. I just want to run away from here.
