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Anonymous

I feel very very very lonely. My parents aren’t talking to me for a very stupid reason . This might sound something really normal for a family but in my case whenever my parents fight I always solve the problem and make things more easy or when ever my sibling goes through a tough time I make sure to be there for her , but nobody really care about my mental health . I cannot share this with my friends 1) cause I / my family might be judged 2) all they are gonna say Is it’s gonna be alright or be the bigger person and go apologise, so I have given up sharing with my friends.
Anyways the reason why they aren’t speaking to me is basics because me and my mom had an argument about something very stupid and my dad gets angry cause I “argued” with my mom and stops speaking to me , as I told you this might sound stupid or something very common or easy situation to deal . But I have been treated really bad , nobody cares and that sucks , it’s sad how I’m always there for these people , so called family but no one is ever there for me! I have been through situations like this my entire life . I have always tried to be strong for myself and i kept telling myself everything is gonna be alright but it keeps getting worse and I have suicidal thoughts because of the anxiety and overthinking. What if I can never be a good parent in the future? What if I turn out like my parents ? This is very hard and at this point I don’t even know why I am alive and I pray to god that he gives me the courage to take my life cause I’m sure that is better than this mental torture

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@justhelpingout

Hey dude! I can certainly vouch that there might be someone in your life whom you can share your feelings with. You cannot think that people will judge you and not share your feelings. You can always share it with me. I think there are people who have the most random incidents in their lives and they do not share thinking people will judge. But when was the last time you judged someone. I dont think so you remember so there is a possibility that people wont judge either. Also there are times when you are lonely. Happens with everyone. But you will eventually find someone who you will enjoy the company of and that is going to be wonderful. Wait for it. It may not happen suddenly but it will- 1,2,5,10 years down the line and its going to be worthwhile.

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Anonymous

I agree it’s not worth while . You spending your time on my thoughts mean a lot to me . Thank you

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Ayna Syed @ayna

You don’t need anyone… you’re more stronger than you think…Stand straight,raise your head,and walk…
Don’t turn or look back you might fall…are u getting what I mean?

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Anonymous

Thank you 🙏🏻 this means a lot and have a good day

@kusum

Hey
Pls dnt pray for such things friend pls…
Yes you might be facing alot of mental pain i agree
It might all seem the end of world for you
But it isnot…
Pls you are a very strong person
Pls dnt get such thoughts in ur mind…
Pls your life is very precious
Pls my friend help urself.
If you cannot share this with your family n friends
Pls visit any doctor
Even a general doctor will do
Visit personally
N talk face to face…

Pls remember others behaviour
Especially behaviour of family hurts alot
But still ur life is ultimately ur life…
Pls try focusing on ur career on ur life
Make ur life…
If you are there for everyone
N noone is there for you
Why not you start being there for urself now?
Why not invest all your time,energy and emotions on urself?
Anyways you feel that nobody appreciates you
So why not try doing what gives u happiness n peace???
Live for urself dear…
Pamper n love urself…
Pls dnt let your hope fade…
Keep 100% faith in urself…
N let me tell you
That you will be an awesome parent
Because you know what words or deeds of parents can hurt a child as you have been through it
So you will refrain from it…
N this way u will be good n different.
.
More power to you.
Take care…
All the best…

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Anonymous

Thank you soo much , I really needed to hear that I will be a good parent and yesss I can be there for myself . This was very helpful thank you for taking time and showing your concern have a great day

@charm0812

hey buddy. first of all take 5 deep breaths and know that you are not alone. I am neither judging you or your family but I want you to know that sometimes family members can be really toxic to our own well being even if unknowingly but yes they can drain you mentally and emotionally. Excess of everything is bad so don’t be a giver with no limits. Next time your parents argue no matter how badly you want to solve things just don’t interfere. They are adults and should deal on their own. It may sound cliche but treat yourself the way you want to be treated. If your sibling is never grateful for what you do for them, stop doing. Every battle is not yours to fight so learn to ignore arguments that are not worth of your time. There is no need to be a bigger person always, your mental peace is more important

Anonymous

Families are always like that my parents have treated me badly had kuthe ki ek din hothe hai every manhas a day

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