I feel very lonely as I am an expecting mother and my husband is always bust with his friends on weekends.
I comes hope late in the night and busy enjoying with his cousins and friends
Talk to him
Keep writing here, there are people who would be more than happy to talk to you whenever you feel lonely!! Its okay, you’ll be alright!!
Please don’t feel low. Consider talking to your husband about how you feel. And you are not alone. we are there for you. You can always share your emotions here.
I tried to talk to him, but he thinks we need counselling because I am over reacting
He is like ok that’s his mistake but I need to focus on 100 more good things he did.
But my husband should understand that at this point of time It is necessary for me to be happy
I feel you. Yes the priority now is your happiness. I am glad that you took steps to talk about how you feel. Remember you are not overreacting , you just stated what he does all the time. Don’t take in the words that he told you. Nobody is perfect and careful about what words they use when they are not in the right state of mind. You do appreciate the 100 good things he does but make him understand that what you need right now is his love , care and spending time together. No one is more important than you two right now and therefore he should start spending more time with you. Ask him to think about it in a very polite way and give him sometime and listen to his opinion about what he thinks. instead of telling him and reemphasizing that he is spending more time with his friends, tell him you need him and his presence matters the world to you. Let him introspect and let you know how he feels about it. Take it forward from there. you will be over this. Don’t worry. Stay strong.
Thank you for the suggestion, I will try doing the same .
