I feel very isolated. I’m a 28 year old female and I’m facing a lot of difficulty finding a companion. Have faced a lot of rejection and disappointment in this area. Even my other relationships (family etc) seem to have hit a rough patch. 
 

Hello, I feel much better after sharing and connecting. :) 

Have been feeling a sense of disconnection and isolation. Life seems to have become way too monotonous and mechanical. Even activities that used to bring me happiness feel like a chore. 😔 

I go for a walk or speak to friends. But lately I’ve just been anxious that I’m going to end up alone. 

Such wise words, thank you 🤗 But i feel much parents want me to get married soon. And I do not like staying where I am not welcome 😔 

Finding a right companion i very important so have patience and take as much time as you can. I know people who got married at 35 and had kids at 40 and trust me they are in better place in terms of relationships compared to people who got married at 24 n had kids soon after and some of them are divorced or in bad marriage. Focus on yourself and make yourself better everyday so you attract the right person for you :)

Relationships

I am very angry at the dating scene these days. Nowadays, all people want is casual relationship or hookups and i feel like i am stuck in wrong generation. All there is left is lust.. nobody wants to plan things. Sabko instant noodles chahiye. Sometimes I feel i will die single.

3am Thoughts

I enjoy being single and I m happy but at the same time I want someone to care and look after me too..
It's kinda mixed that single life is great but y do I crave also

I want to fall in love and have a good relationship with someone who will love me back as much as I do. But I’m not good at socializing with others. Even my friends ask me why I’m still single. I don’t know how to answer them cause even I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

Lonely

A boy with a pure heart is mostly unlucky in a relationship.


Any thoughts?

I won't say that I have been unlucky in love. I have been unlucky in relationships. After sometime, the guy will start taking me for granted. My time, my effort, my presence really doesn't seem that important. I know I will meet the guy who will love me just as much as I love will him. I know it. I know in my heart. But the wait is frustrating. When will I meet him? This is the question that troubles me. My friends are getting married or are in relationship and I have no partner. It is just tiring

Love

i just turned 25,everything seems so wrong ,  i didnt have a boy friend in my 25 years but all of my peers are in good relations or married or have kids but i dont wanna be married because my friends are married or am getting older. But i feel so alone some times and am always scared that am not gonna find some body who is gonna love me like i love them( This has happened twice in the past, like i had feelings but they didnt like me that way ) and am gonna die single .

I'm going to settle as soon as i get a decent job , not doing that "enjoy your single days" shit, it's already shit and I'm tired of feeling alone and not being someone important. Atleast then, there will be someone i can rely on.

I am a guy with a very good professional career, I focussed on the career entirely in my college. I used to have good number of friends back then. Due to WFH and other peoples priorities my friends circle became thinner, so I hardly have anyone to speak. I was feeling lonely. So, I thought I’ll try dating apps, I presented my self good, but there are no matches. I feel like I have wasted my college life not focusing on other parts of life! Now I feel like I should have one partner to share my thoughts.
Anyone has same issues or any thoughts ?


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