I feel very bad now a days actually from many months but now i am getting agressive over small things. I get triggered by everything and whatever everyone says to me. I feel stressed , emotional, angry and bad at same time. Even if i take my stand and backfire with my answers then also it makes me feel bad becoz at the end i feel guilty for hurting my own people.
i don't know what to do now in lyf and feeling so alone n lost and stuck

I feel that you need to talk to someone, or take break from everything and calm youself 

Sahanawaz Gazi

Everything will be good my mate ..it needs time..just relax urself and be low for days ..for sure it wld get better

Thankyou guys..your words means a lot..makes me feel like i am not alone in this struggle

Anger Issues

I reunited with a friend who I used to like before. Safe to say that we are on good terms again because the past couple of months we weren’t talking at all, but today we did. It’s good to catch up with them but I am worried that I might still have feelings or develop them again for them because they aren’t interested in dating and nor do they like me (we have talked about it before). I just don’t wanna get attached in a romantic sense with them, and rn idk what to do. Can someone suggest anything?

Confusion

So basically, i recently rented a flat near my college, i was living with 3 unknown girls whom i quickly became friends with. One day we went out and while coming back at 2:30AM they decided to go to thier male friend's flat. Now being in a relationship, i wasn't comfortable with going to his flat. I couldn't rent a cab this late at night so they offered me that their 3 male friends will drop me off. I wasn't comfortable with going in a car with 3 random boys but i still did. Next time before we went out i asked them if they will come back to our flat with me, they said most probably they will but when we were returning they did the same as last time but this time i somewhat forced them to come home with me as I didn't felt safe with any other option . Next day we had a huge fight and one of the girl said a lot of hurtful and embarrassing things to me. She was shouting really loudly and i did shout back but tbh sometimes i feel maybe this whole situation was my fault or maybe they were right, i shouldn't have gone with them if i wasn't comfortable.

3am Thoughts

Sad, lonely in my marriage. Husband not interested in my well being. Can’t talk to him about my feelings and he doesn’t want to know. It hurts

Marriage

Aansu aaye to khud poch lena,
Agar log pochne aynge to sauda krenge   

Life

So I broke up w my bf 3 months ago. I had my reasons, I know it was right at that moment. For the first one month, I didn't feel a thing. But then, there's this uneasiness. Whenever I see him or hear his name l'm having a mini Panic attack, my appetite is completely dead, I don't even want to get up from my bed. He seems like he moved on. I don't know whether it's the guilt or hurt that he didn't even try to reach out to me once or maybe a feeling of unworthyness that he gave up on me so quickly. It's not like I broke up for silly reasons, I tried and tried to tell him that it feels like a one man show (me putting all the efforts) he made my biggest fear ever in a relationship come true (guy putting all the effort in the beginning and then taking the girl granted ). Despite letting him know this several times, he didn't change and instead said "I'm kinda pressuring him" that was my last straw. But why do I get to be the depressed kid after the breakup even after doing everything I could. I need solution to get over this feeling and feel like l've done something wrong.

Breakup

Got married to a guy in 2020(almost end of it) and the relationship collapsed within 6months. It was an arrange marriage and I didn’t know anything about the guy beforehand(I mean his personality and nature). He turn out to be a narcissist and a complete psycho. He would say to me that give your complete control to me. He was so controlling. He didn’t love me at all but would emotionally abuse me and I recognised his bad behaviour just 2 days after marriage but I thought maybe I’m just thinking too much into it. But he turn out to be the worst guy ever. I got depressed and developed anxiety disorder. I was on medication and therapy for it for many months. Now I’m all fine, thank God. I would advise all you people to make sure who you are getting married to. People are very dangerous. 





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