I feel trapped! My parents are soo old school that they won’t even let me breath without knowing… They shout at me infront of anyone they treat me like i m a slave to them (they never forced me to do household work or something)… But they want me to just study… Not to talk to boys… They don’t even allow me to wear clothes of my choice for that matter they don’t want me to wear jeans… It was my b’day i was very happy… We gave a party to my friends but my mom didn’t wanted that… She thought parties are not for’sanskari’ people… This party was decided by my father and he couldn’t reach the venue on time… So my friends were comming(some were on the way) she started bashing me sayingbcoz of me she had to drive her scooty and reach the venue in such cold weather(it was drizzling outside)… Nalayak, besharam ,neech… She kept going… Everyone was looking at us the hotel staff, my friends all the other people… Then she grabbed my brother and left the venue saying karte raho party hum kahi aur khana kha lenge… I wanyed to cry soo bad!.. Everyone was staring at me… My father arrived i hugged him and started crying then he wiped my tears and ordered the food and cake… He asked me to smile and not to ruin my b’day… This is just one incident… There are mant like this… I feel suffocated… [luckily that day my father stood by my side but usually he is alsonthe same as mom on normal days] i want freedom… And my mom says none of ur friends have parents like us we get you clothes worth 5000 or 10000 and give you every amenity u want… But i don’t want money or dresses or exotic food… I want freedom and respect! I don’t say they don’t love me… They are just too tough some times!
fatouma73 @fatouma73
please, try to calm dowm
i am here
did you tell your parents about it
No… I don’t want to talk to them rn
What should i say? They’ll convince me that how my point is wrong at the end of yhe day
Ya i once told my mom… She never said a no directly… She’s like do whatever you want don’t talk to me… She gets upset
I can relate with ur situation even tho I am boy but my mom is too strict not just strict she is controlling my life my career. I live with my mom cause my parents are divorced so I don’t have any choice she wants me to everything perfect, I can’t talk to any girls cause she thinks right I should only focus on studies, I can’t hang out with my friends , I can’t watch TV while eating urghhh it’s like I am living in north Korea can’t do anything…
It’s called physical and emotional abuse. For someone who’s gone through the same for almost 21 years of my life, i recommend you to talk and speak up. And if they still don’t understand (some old school people can’t be changed) then fuck them, work until you’re financial independent, fuck off from your home and lead your life happily. Sending love and strength ❤️
Ya i m gonna leave my home once i get into a good med college… I love my parents so much… Just wish they understand some day!
