I feel that I am doing so much for others but instead of being appreciated, they are taking me for granted. And when I stop helping them, they again blame it on me about how emotionless and non supportive person I am. It like I am struck in a continuous loop of emotional blackmailing, where they always force me to feel guilty for anything I do for myself.
I'm_crazy_about... @sohia
sometimes itβs okay to care about you and your feels plus if people are treating you like that then if i were there they would be hearing a good mouthful from me, you deserve better
exactly. you should build up the nerve and stand up for yourself. no one is going to do it for you. in the end you only have you. take care of yourself
Nancy @theweirdone
I can relate to what you are going through. And as itβs about your close people taking advantage of you its a very hard situation. But even then also its only you who you should prioritise. Donβt do the things just because they want you to. Ask yourself if that thing is making you unhappy. Most of the time people donβt try to understand things from our pov.
If they really care about you they should change this emotional blackmailing thing. And if things they want go against your mental health or your happinessβ¦ Donβt do it. Period. Alsoo Feel free to talk about it.
Thanks :)
Thank you for the advice. It means a lot. I am not gonna live for others from now on. Itβs my life and I will live it to the fullest
