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@sissi11

I feel terrible.
Today is father’s day.
My dad hasn’t been acting like a real dad for sometime (always fixating on the computer, trying to make stuff and breaking it, being angry at nothing
and nothing goes right and just spending all his time doing something he knows won’t work. And while he’s busy with that he forgets his girlfriend and me and gives us 0 attention.) And today he texted me hinting it’s father’s day. Well I don’t celebrate that… Ever since things went downhill family wise I just don’t wanna celebrate those stupid days. I called him asking what the text was for he said “well it’s a special day…” I sighed, of course. “I don’t want to force you or anything, but your sister sent a message and I want you to dwell on the fact it is today.”
Really dad?
At the moment I’m living in my mothers house who’s away for a month because I got so sad and frustrated at his place. He keeps telling me he doesn’t like the idea of me being alone… I told him to stop saying that but we literally had the conversation about twice in a week! He’s impossible to live with. Keeps telling me I refuse to take up any other chores around the house, yes I do that only so he does something aswell or else I have to do everything. I’m glad I don’t live there anymore. Just had to share this somewhere in the hope someone hears it so I don’t have to tell my friends my dad had been annoying, again.

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Anonymous

Hiii, you can talk about this here as many times as you want to. You are not annoying and I’m here to listen to you. I’m sorry you are going through this. I’d just want to say that you are nkt obliged to do anything for anyone if you don’t want to.

@sissi11

Thank you so so much kind stranger!! ❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous

I hope you are fine and pray that in near future your life will become beautiful like a nature.Do what you want do.After all it is your life, you choice,your decision.
Hope you have a brighter future.😀Keep smiling like this emoji.

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