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I feel shy to click photos and to wear little revealing clothes like crop top or whatever infront of my parents. They are quite old fashioned. I would love to wear those clothes but I don’t think they’ll ever allow me. They always ask me to be smart, look smart. My father don’t allow me to wear tight jeans.
I too want to wear all those clothes. I too want to look good. My dad’s side relatives everytime ask me why don’t wear western clothes that much for which my father replies that I don’t like to wear. That’s why I stopped going out.

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@liya

U can show your parents how people are growing… Wearing different clothes gives u confidence according to me … U shld talk to them and tell them that you want it and want to do it with there permission… It’s good to explore… Give them logical reasons that might help

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Anonymous

I told them. I tried. But instead they judged me. If my father will judge me what can i expect from others. My father judge my friends who wear such kind of clothes.

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@liya

Then u know what u can’t change them… Sorry but they might be puppets of society or may be they think this kinda clothes may lead to ur harm… But u are a independent soul… Wear wht u want without telling them…bcz now u r listening to ur father then u wld have to listen to ur husband and then kids … I m sure u wldnt want that … I m not saying to be rebel but make sure u were these kind of clothes in the safe atmosphere… Like when u r with ur friends or in the area where it is normal… And it might take u a while to carry them but eventually u will understand…and start wearing whatever u want … Remember it is not a sin to have ur own thoughts or actions… U just need to take there responsibilities
Loads of hugs and love… Go free be u… Family shldnt be a barrier… They shld be a support… And I m glad u have ur own thaughts

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Anonymous

Thanks a lot for comforting me ❤️❤️

@insane01

Don’t stop yourself! Wear want you like when your dad tell them you don’t like cut him n there n say that its not that i dont like my parents dont like it! And dont worry once u get independent enough u can wear whatever you want!

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Anonymous

I wanted to be alone. I wanted to live in hostel for my college. But my parents bought home there near college. Firstly, they were planning to buy house somewhere else. They are very strict. 🙁

@insane01

Ikkkk possesive parents but how long will they hold on to it? If you are an adult n you dnt need to depend on them they wont be able to control you! For now make that your goal be independent enough if talking to them is useless. That day will surely come jst need to hang on n remind urself of that day when u will be able to wear wateva u want… And u can still have fun go to shopping malls n try all the clothes you want!! 😂Make sure u aren’t chased out by security! From part time earning by few clothes you wanna wear and change into it when you go out alone! Dont be sad there are many ways and hacks 😉😉😉

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Anonymous

Thank you so much for your sympathy… ❤️❤️❤️😌😌. Hope they will change their mindset. 😊🙌

@insane01

No sympathy i support you!! Okayyyy!

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