I feel really disgusted, I get this feeling often where I think I move on way too quickly like if I sense even a little amount of disinterest, I drop my feelings right there. I donβt know if itβs normal or good or bad or healthy or whatβ¦I donβt even know if Iβll ever be able to love someone consistently and it just makes me feel really anxious and angry ugh
I think maybe you should find urself
Find the things u really like about urself n even wat u dont like
Self evaluation can make u understand wat u want in someone else
Simran @st1199
Hi!
The feelings where we feel for some time (a day, hours) is called Infatuation. Everyone goes with that so not a big deal.
Now, when you feel the connection or the wavelength matching or similar interests and importantly you just get that click, you know itβs more than Infatuation. Give time to your feelings and talk to yourself is it leading somewhere or not. Do you want the other person to feel in the same manner? Do you feel you can have a relationship with him? Understanding your feelings is important to see where it leads.
I hope it helps! π
Hi, so like I take my time to know someone but this happens even when I feel things that are more than infatuation, I might be in love w someone for 6+ months but if i sense that slight amount of disinterest, I detach myself completely so like yeah you are correct, I might be judging my feelings wrongly
I donβt know, I just sound so confused and despise myself for feeling like that
Simran @st1199
What you do is. When you feel this way donβt just make up your mind by saying βLetβs get over it, I am not getting the vibe and allβ rather just wait and ask after some days that is it really over or I made it over.
And if this thing happens when you are with someone then toh definitely give time to yourself and the person you are committed with.
Maybe you want to have new feelings for many people despite having one for a long time. In my opinion, this should be the case if you are not getting the same thing from that person. Otherwise, just process your feelings and I think for the right person you will stay. π
Itβs okay if you donβt like something or someone. Youβre not in a race to find your soulmate. What you should think about is how did you reach to the place where you start feeling nothing for a person.
Also , itβs not a mistake to be cautious and I envy that.
I wish you find all the happiness in the world.