I feel like my friends hated me. The last time my friends invited me to dinner and they act as if I’m alienated. They showed me they’re so close and I feel like I don’t belong. I feel hate and anger towards them. I blame myself too. I mean, what’s wrong with me?
Maybe not. We’ve been friends for 5 years or so. And I wonder why if im the problem. it seems like that always
I was friendly, and I joke with them too. But it’s not working. Well, they’re two girls who only wear skirts due to their strict religious beliefs but I wear jeans all the time.
Happens with all of us at some point in time. The thing I have realised, is that no matter how much you try and be their best friend or be their well-wisher, people don’t always see your actions/intentions. They also make friends because of their selfish reasons and so it’s ok if you don’t feel included. As long as your intentions were good, either they will understand or you will get better friends :)
Maybe I have no benefit to them and they can’t use me that’s why I’m discarded?
True, i have read all your thought and responses and i have been in this situation and even i was there with them i felt lonely only being true also they doesn’t cared so i came out of it …
What happened then. How did you overcome it? Are they friends or not true friends?/
They were not true to me in that whole case i was there , but they were not there when I needed them also they plan outing without me also and when I asked to one of the person you could have called me , that person doesn’t have answer to reply to me and many more where betrayal been there…
I can totally relate to this!
Most times, you opening up and telling them how you feel works better, if they don’t change their behavior just cut them off.
Remember you’re perfect and overqualified to be their friend and if they can’t make you feel good, they don’t deserve to be called your ‘friends’
Love you ❤️.