I feel like my boyfriend is ignoring me. He’s working night shifts n we almost don’t talk at all… I miss him all the time but it doesn’t feel mutual. It seems like he doesn’t miss/wants to talk to/meet me. I’m mess. Guys out there, please help me out… is he really not interested in me anymore??
The same thing happens to me… But when we meet it doesn’t really feels so… I would suggest that give him some time
We haven’t met in over a month. I ask him to meet up every weekend… he says he will but ends up with an explanation to cancel. He hardly texts me… I’ve been very open about my feelings too… he says he’ll try to do better but just doesn’t… I really don’t know what to do… I just can’t control his effect on me
I really do understand your situation… Ask him a day out… Say that its really important… Thrn clear all your doubts regarding your relationship
I’ll do that… thanks love xo
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Same goes with me, idk where he is busy i just keep stocking his wx all the time!😑
Why are boys like this? 😂
No one really busy in 24 hours if he can’t give u 2 mins then is He worth to be in your life move on babe he is just using u
Sanket @sanket
He is working in a night shift, and night shifts are really worse my dear. They are very exhausting, dream killer, and they just crete disturbance in one’s mind. Are you very sure with your words - “It seems like he doesn’t miss/wants to talk to/meet me.”? Speak to him, ask him to manage some time, be very direct. Tell him that this distance is bothering you. You in return get aggressive behaviour. But keep in mind he is working in night shifts and they arent good for health. Be a little supportive.
I’ve told him directly that I miss him and want some time with him. Lately he’s got time to be with his friends but not me… I’m waiting all night expecting a reply, he texts me the next afternoon saying he slept… is it too much if I’m asking him to let me know if he’s gonna sleep? Today morning I expressed that I want some time with him… he said he’ll try to be there but spent the day with his friends… I don’t expect him to not hang out with them but if he can give them an entire day can’t he give me an hour? I’ve told him my problems so so so many times… he says he understands but just doesn’t act like it
Sanket @sanket
DISCONNECT!!
Just disconnect for a while. Focus on your family, friends, job/studies. If he is into you then let him be the initiator now. Start taking some actions and let time answer your questions. You are not asking much, in fact asking for his attention is your right. It hurts when the person with whom we wanna share time, just ignores you. I am facing a similar situation, please disconnect for a while, take care.
