I feel like i’m missing something in my life. Ever since 2019 summer ended, life just feels likes nothing. I don’t want to end myself or anything like that, I just want to be happy again. 2019 was my favorite of my life. The thing is, I had made a bestfriend. The only bestfriend I have ever had. Throughout my whole life I could never invite friends over or stuff like that because I lived in my uncle’s house and never really talked to kids outside of school. When I moved to a new state this changed. I had met this person that I am gonna call “Tom”. Tom had so many similar interests and we lots of fun together. Sidetracking, before I met tom my life felt weird. It wasn’t a bad weird it was good. I had met so many new people and enjoyed so many new things. I had learned so many things. When tom came, it was even better because I actually had someone to talk to. After summer, he stopped talking to me, got made fun of for reasons that im not gonna state and I didn’t help him. It felt he just left me and didn’t want to talk to me. After new year, he got a Gaming PC and could talk to me. Things were weird because we didn’t talk in like 5 months. He said some stuff and everybody hated him. He started losing friends and changed his personality. I saw that this was happening and was always by his side but he was never happy. A week ago he left me and my friend group comepletely. I don’t think that he is going to talk to us anymore. He is not himself. He is like a different person. Should I try and talk to him or is this a sign that I should just leave him?
Yes! You should talk to him about what is exactly happening in his life. Why is he doing this. Try and understand him. What he is feeling. Give him your support. You should really talk to him.
You’re post is interesting; you’re seekung advice on the wellfare of someone else and you seem genuinely caring. I think that when people pull away is when, they need someone most…but just can’t voice it somehow. I’m not saying to watch him like a hawk…just offer him some support by showing you’re there for him. Both fortunately and unfortunately, we all have a will of pur own; if he so chooses to pull away for a bit, it’s not your fault. I hope the best for yours and his situation.