I feel like I try too hard to make him happy. Always available to meet him even when he’s busy. And when I think of saying him no, I feel like I’ll hurt him. He’s a good guy that I know but should I be this much easier on him? How can I control this nature of mine?
Please be careful. I know it’s hard to break habits but try to step back and determine if he would do the same for you. I dated someone like that and they turned out to be a narcissist.
To control over indulgance , understand why you do it. Perhaps thats the way you subconsciously feel that this relationship should be from your side. This might stem from low self confidence . Would suggest you to pick up some hobbies or focus more on what you currently do. A simple change of bringing daily exercise or meditation is enough to break the rhythm for the way you think.
Also make a note of not texting him all the time.
