i feel like i have the most boring personality and people wouldn’t like to be around me? i feel like i don’t have a strong enough personality to make an impact in a room. I’m a teen and i fear what if i can never overcome these things? what if i never get a job because of low self esteem and lack of confidence?
not just this, i compare myself to my best friend who is funny, smart, witty, and can socialise like a pro. whereas i can’t even continue a conversation because of anxiety. I’m a very quiet person and people tell me to speak more and i try to but my anxiety prevents me to do so. why can’t I make more jokes and be funnier and someone who is not boring. do you guys think i have a shallow personality based on this?
No…this is your nature and appreciate it. Take each step at a time. There is no point showing your emotions to everyone, nobody cares after certain time…work hard, learn skills, add value to life, help the needy, start freelancing, writing your own blog …
Charisma on demand videos might help and try checking Think school communication course if possible join toastmasters… Best wishes. You will shine soon.
Thankyou so much
No. You are who you should be… I’m sure you have your passions and interests… And you’ll find people who will love u for who u are
I do actually! there are things i genuinely like to do and things that interest me but none of my friends do the same things sothey judge me for it