I feel like I am not ready for a relationship but I’m already in one…Now I love him but at the same feel like our relationship is no going to workout in the future cuz we have to struggle if we want approval of our parents which is no easy task for both of us and I feel like he will breakup cause he cares a lot about the people talks and they will talk about us and he really become sensitive when it comes to society…I know it’s important to fit in society but…If we just have to struggle to fit in then it will take forever for us to fit in…Some time think we should have leave it because we were good friend What should I do???
Do whatever you want to do 🎋
It’s your life so decision should be yours.
Thank you for your advice ☺
Sit down and talk this out if still not working out then its upto you
Thank you for ur advice☺
You should work on your future first. You can do that by not even getting separated. Just give priority to your career for now. And talk to the other person everything about it. And tell him to be mature and understand that it may or may not happen. If he’s willing to get with you this way, that’s good. Otherwise he may go, and you should focus on your career for now. Maybe something much better awaits you that way :)
You are in relationship with him then talk to him. Tell him your fears. See his reaction. Work it out. If it doesn’t work out then walk out of it. It’s your life. Prioritize yourself.
I am in the same situation
Hey
Hy guys, I am in a serious relationship, but I take my boyfriend as if he is my best friend, and he is for sure, we have come now to 4 years in a row, but one year before, an incident got happened, if my story will become a little bit longer, forgive me guys, I was with him and his friend were there in our one-day journey, he was avoiding me all the time, I got a fever and caught a cold but he was no more there to observe what happened to me, then I took a step to indicate him that please turn off the ac I was getting chills and for chai, he didn’t trouble to do so after telling him, I was very disappointed at that time, and I confronted him after that I didn’t like your ignorance, but after that event, my mind subconsciously start noticing when I got chance to meet him, then afterthat I started to notice, the trip of us accompanied by his friends, we were three his one friend and I was there and occasionally it was happening and then it all started clicking in my mind when I am surrounded by his persons be it his cousins or friends and family members he doesn’t want to talk with me more not giving me any love languages signs he used to give me when we are alone he is quite nice with me,when I am with him phone or be it both of us in enclosed sharing but when we are more with people or in busy roads or malls he forgot me and moving ahead without me without taking my hands,I don’t enjoy his company no more he is frustrated now like completing the task for the sake of hanging out
Don’t do this mam, you are wasting your time being alone if you love him Don’t waste even a second. Relationships bring there own problem but affection you share is on whole new level. You know you are just making it more difficult to get him with every passing day and if you love him you will regret this, and be aware loving and not going in Relationship you are creating unwanted problems that you guys will fight in future so better the sooner
Hlo
Take deep breath have courage to face it and tell the fact if uts true love he will be with u and if not u don’t have to worry about ur future.
Hi
U both sit n have a good conversation with each other , listen to each other calmly n just figure out n most important if u feel like your relationship then find out a solution asap n stop thinking about this God damn society!
Hey…umm…I see u r struggling with a huge life decision right now, I’d suggest u to open up to him and expres about your thoughts and ask about his opinion to find out if he has solution for it and to find out his opinion.
This is not a decision that must be taken quick cuz it might mess ur mind later, tell ur partner these things and I think u both can work it out pretty well.
Good luck👍.
