I feel everything and nothing at all. My best friend isn’t speaking to me at the moment. She went through my phone while I was unconscious due to being drunk. And she saw her ex and I chatting. The next day she messaged me all these hurtful things about me needing to grow up and how disappointed she is with me and that we need to speak in person. I tried to met up with her today but her bf was not feeling well so she told me not to come over. I wish I could take it all back. I don’t even feel anything for her stupid ex. He was the one always reaching out to me I was turned him down. Yet she’s upset with me. I feel horrible and then I don’t care.
Trust your friendship
Talk to her in person and I am sure you guys will get past it 👍
I’m just so anxious of what will happen and I’m angry that she took advantage of the situation
Whatever you feel
It is absolutely valid ⭐
I hope you’re doing good.
If she’s your bestfriend then she’ll give you a chance to justify yourself.
And yes bestfriends do understand eachother.
It’s just weird when you talk to someone everyday and now she doesn’t seem to care about our friendship. She said she wasn’t mad but clearly she is
I guess she is acting weird because of the anger. If you want the friendship then you need to talk to her.
Or you always have the option B.
It’s the waiting game that’s killing me the ball is in her court now
If you want her to serve then you should talk her and you should say her that you’re ready to listen to her.
Either the serve will be good or you’ll loose the game.
Wanderer @wanderer_
Firstly, you should realise that if your friend is going through your phone, she’s not a trustworthy friend and at this stage you cannot trust her and she won’t trust you
And yes you are partly at fault for talking to her ex and not telling her
You should have been honest to her
But most importantly, everyone should respect privacy and she going through your phone is wrong
Give her time and space
And you should take some time off too
Yes that’s what keeps replaying in my mind the fact that she waited till I was unconscious to go through my phone that’s all I keep remembering me passed out and her asking for my password. If we both don’t trust each other then does that mean we throw away 14+ years of friendship away ? I’m the godmother of her two babies it makes everything so much worse
Wanderer @wanderer_
If she kept asking you about your password then she doesn’t trust you at all, you should move on, its not worth it if there is no trust,
i am sorry this is harsh but it is the only solution
without trust, there is nothing to work on
Pleaaseee… Dont be sad… She’s your bestf… She’ll get what you are trynna say… And if you didn’t do anything wrong yaar… I mean talking to your bestf’s ex is not such a big thing… I can understand what she might be thinking of at that particular moment… But I am pretty sure that you both will be back on track sooner hat later! And pleassee don’t crib about it rn… You were not wrong girl… Just smile and wait for her to calm down… She’ll understand… ❤❤
I can’t help but feel sad. I was already depressed before this happened. I just feel so helpless and exhausted.
You have all the help you need… Just look for it around you… Look at this platform… You’ll get whatever you need in here… mental support, ears… everything… Just stay strong girl…
Bestfriend are really more than fighting over exes or even presents. It’s hard to call someone your bestfriend if she is acting out just cause of that. But there’s a simple solution:- block the guy in front of her(I guess the ex is using you to get to her), make some maggi or order a pizza, watch some Netflix and curse out each other…let it all out🤝
That’s what blows my mind after everything we have been through this is what ends everything ?! I will definitely block him infront of her. I don’t need to speak to him I don’t care for him at all. I hope she gives me the chance to talk soon.
Are you even Bestfriends if you don’t fight and revover from that, you can’t make her stop if she wanna fight and one has to be forgiving and understanding…My Best wishes to you and do not forget the pizza
Thank you I appreciate it
