I ended a two year relationship with my ex boyfriend almost a year ago. I thought he was the one and even though there were many red flags I ignored them because I loved him. Then one day I realized how unhealthy was the relationship and I found the courage to break up with him. It’s been a year now but I still have feelings for him and this makes me mad at myself, how can I still love someone who treated me like shit?! I try so hard to move on and don’t think about him, because I know I made the right choice, but it’s not easy.
I don’t talk about this with my friends because I feel ashamed to tell them I still have feelings for him.
I went through the exact same thing. Except I have moved on. I can totally understand what you’re going through. When I used to miss him or think of going back to him , I’ll just remind myself that someone who says that he loves tou doesn’t make you go through shit or treats you badly and than act like everything is ok. Also I got busy with my own life so I don’t even care about him.
Just keep reminding yourself why you broke up with him in the first place . And keep yourself busy. Having feeling for him doesn’t make you a bad person. But you need to let go of them now and find someone worthy.
Hope it helped.
see sis this is happening because you are single now … when you are single everyone looks greats its like everything is beauty .
so go find someone for your self
it just you are lonely that you are remembering yourself
Shashank @shashank122
Don’t feel ashamed while discussing this feeling of love even after breakup.
When we love someone even we get separated we have that feeling of love with that person.
Its a normal thing.
So don’t take stress too much.
Always remember attachment is the root cause of deattachment.
Make new goals which u think is very important for u.
Focus on urself.
Make new friends or try to date someone else.
Start loving urself more nd more.
