I don’t like if people around me are better than me. I hate this feeling. I don’t want to feel this. But I can’t control it. I don’t want to see them I want to focus on myself but I can’t. It eats me. I’m working soooo hard for days and weeks and the people are working for 1h and they get the same grade as me. Im going crazylqkwkslllw
I am sorry that you are feeling thing that you do not want to. It could be difficult to see people grow with ease while we make plenty of efforts to reach there. But grass is always greener on the other side. This is not to invalidate your feeling, but struggle leaves no one behind. I know it’s easier said than done, but I guess making a chart for daily achievements could help. List things that you would like to achieve… take example… read 10 pages of xyz book or write review on abc topic (you can make any goal that fits your study or work) and try achieving them. When you see that you have achieved what you aimed for this will help you divert from other and you will have the sense of victory. Though this is not going to be easy, I hope that you feel better, and try not to be so harsh on yourself. This will pass. You are good, in fact better.
Sending love ❤️
I think you are more focused on other people and you should start focusing on yourself, if they have good grades that doesn’t mean you will get their grades. So start focusing on yourself. You can not say they are doing efforts or not. But you can do efforts on your own and stop thinking what they are getting and start focusing on how you will get good grades.
When you will start doing this then what others are getting will not bother you. And then you can focus on yourself more.
Best of luck 😊
