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Hetu Chaudhari @hetvi011

I don’t know why I’m asking this question here but I guess there might be some people going through worse than me and maybe they can advice me on how to keep minimal contact with your toxic family members , it’s not that I don’t care about them or something but what’s really happening is they ask me for something or even if we are casually talking about something and those same words are getting used against me as if I have I’ll motivations to say something and as if I wanted them to fight . In a nutshell , they don’t want to admit their own intentions behind their action and blaming everything on me as if I am the Villain and want to break their unity or something .

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Hetu Chaudhari @hetvi011

Yeah I’m going for cycling too after dinner to avoid discussions.

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ash buz @catlady06

I’ve had to seperate totally from my family. Bc of financials, I’m back in the clutch somewhat with my grandparents, my mothers parents, and she was heavily abusive. I decline invites to dinners, I stay in my room when she’s around the house. Stonewall them when they talk to you. Give bland/vague and boring answers. Pretend youre clueless when they ask questions. If you’re stuck talking to them, just keep the Convo on them as much as it sucks to listen to lol. Bc If you’re listening you’re not saying anything to be turned into ammo. Good luck brah, I get it. It’s rough. At least you got a game plan to get out. Just breathe and get there, best of luck.

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