PLEASE PLEASE don’t go to him.
Its ur life, n ur child will be more happy without him.
I would go the abroad and once there , apply to become a citizen. Get financial independence and then leave. Woman are supported outside of the country you are from . You will be away from both your side and his side of the family and be able to make your own decisions without negative influence. Trust and support are the root of a marriage and you have neither and takes a lifetime of repair. That is also what your teaching your child indirectly. That it’s okay to be treated that way and acceptable.
Anytime! You have to fight not for yourself but for your children. Mother’s are warrior and they will fight which ever battle to make sure that they and their children grow up in a safe supported environment. I feel “society “ is 90% of the problem… eliminate that and focus on the real deal
