I don’t know if it’s just me but I feel like, since I’m chubby it’s normal for me to not date, that I’m just the friend you’d never want to be in a relationship with.
My girlfriends keep telling me that someday I’ll find someone who will love me as I am but theirs a little voice inside my head that keeps on telling me how ugly, fat and pathetic I am and that I shouldn’t expect any man to want me.
Ugh, bro nooo. Honestly, it doesn’t matter. When a guy genuinely likes you, he won’t be thinking about those things. People’s love list don’t go like my gf should be skinny and all.
Embrace your self. You are perfect in every way, love. Love will find you. ♥
Hello! Beautiful soul!
The voice inside your head is not for you this for your ugly mindset!! Listen up u not being able to date is not your problem people usually fall for the Appreance first again it’s not your problem! I am cubby too,I was born chubby I have been given nicknames since then but if I step back and isolate myself then I don’t think the baby me will have justice,I do have opposite gender friends but it was never for uk to take friendship to another level I was surrounded with couples around me I hurts I does hurts you feel like you aren’t enough but have you ever thought about the baby you?? Has baby you ever isolated?? Has the baby you ever slacked back?? No, u still used to wake up everday, dress up, go out and reach to the world bravely even though you didn’t feel like that you still did!!! So, what’s wrong now??? They don’t like you not your problem! Trust me WE BETTER DO THIS ON OUR OWN! You don’t need anyone you are brave, (LOOK HAVE BRAVE AND QUITE YOU ARE, I ALMOST FORGOT YOU WERE STRUGGLING) I wrote this when I felt numb!! Anyway you are handsome and beautiful and every bright thing in the world!! But working out on your health is never late! Love and embrace the old you first take lost of pictures and smile alot in this world of abs and small waist , one with tummy and face are very rare and you are the one of the rarest!!! Be happy☺☺☺
YES ! amen. not a single human beings worth is determined by the size of their body. you can be strong and beautiful and brave and courageous AND chubby. as cliché as it sounds, the things that make you worth loving are in the inside.
also as someone who has struggled with body image my whole life, try and take time to appreciate the amazing things your body does for you everyday. it’s allowing you to live this life so love on it a little more. 🤍🤍
Boy you are going to be good okay I don’t know about the love part but I was in the situation so what did I do I went to the gym and work on myself daily I am still on my transformation journey so did guys asked me out… Nopee but am I happy with the progress… Yes so at the end I am happy that I did something for myself I changed myself because I wanted to and it doesn’t matter whether you’re in a relationship or not you should learn to enjoy your own company. 😇
