I don’t know if anyone will judge me after reading this but there is a question in my mind also a guilt that i have to Confess.
6 months ago I broke up my 4 years relationship. I started feeling alone as I am in the habit of always getting attention and pampering but now I miss all those lovely hugs and kisses. There is a guy who likes me also I have a bit crush on him but the thing is he is in a relationship. We went for drinks one day and I got high. I was in the washroom there he came to check me if I was fine , I taunted him badly that i am aware of all his intentions and I don’t trust him and all the things but he was so soo nice to me he came inside rub my back wash my face clean it and ask me if I feel okay or not. He got some lemons gave me with his own hands though I insist to had it my self but he took atmost care of me by himself. When I started feeling better I don’t know how but I attracted to him so much I hugged him. Then also he can’t do anything to take advantage. We went for walk there he confess many things about his personal life and kissed me. I resist because I realize that I am doing equally bad to the girl who is with this guy as him. But I am still feeling guilty for the thing that I have done. When I told him to not cheat her girl he gave me the reason that he is in a long distance relationship and multiple times he had tried to let her the girl knew that they are not working. And I have seen their messages also I am really confused, guilty and feeling like stuck.
If the felling between both of you is mutual and if he is really into you than, you should make sure that the guy with whom you are in love with should break the ties with his girlfriend, because whatever been said its clearly not correct for that another girl, if possible you can communicate with that girl and tell her the situation more clearly. At least you will be free from your Guilt and can enjoy your relationship too.
Sanket @sanket
Sorry to be rude but you have equally participated in the cheating act. Unfair.
He is still with that girl if it’s not working, do whatever is needed here.
Hey ,
If he is interested, he must get rid of his existing commitments with his present girlfriend. Also, you must know that it is not cheating of any sort if you clearly told him to stop and think about his girl. You wanted him, so you did, many people will tell you that you did a blunder and cheating and all, let me tell you, women doing what they want doesn’t go well down the throat of many people. Don’t stress yourself out with such thoughts. Instead , i would suggest, first try to judge the man, if he is really trustworthy or is he what you need or it’s just attraction.
You really give me the best advice. I am feeling a little good now. And i hope things won’t become worse and i get over this soon.