I don't know how to define this feeling. I met a guy 4 months ago, soon we came close to each other. Despite of being just friends we share equation like couples. That kind of talk, we use nickname for each other and all. Suddenly one day he stopped doing those things, he start treating me like his other female friends or i can started giving me less importance then them. I tried to talk to him about this, he clearly told things can't be same all time. Now i don't know what to do, i mean he is right, i have no right to questioning him, neither he owe any explanation to me.. still.. i don't what's bothering me. Is it love? Or habit? Or a change which i'm not able to accept. It's killing me inside.. i don't know what to do.. should i stop talking to him?

Should i stop talking to him?? Should i broke all contacts with him?

Express out yourself to him, talk to him. If you feel something for him then express it out.
Dont supress it, normalize it. Figure out what it is. Maybe put some efforts to cherish your bond?
I believe it's worthy to have a good friend.

Conflict

So l met a guy last year online and we talked every single day for months, He fell for me first and eventually l fell harder but despite that l knew we were not gonna last long cause he wasn't ready for a commitment and we never labeled our relationship idk what it was but he felt like home. From spending hours on face time to staying up late to compensate for the distance between us. But then we started to fight and argue. He drunk called me once and said that he loved me but he isn't the right one for me and said that l should eventually block him and go. I said l would never do that and he started to push me away yet we were so close. He stopped saying l love you and he stopped calling me cute names. On occasions that he did, felt like heaven to me but then the arguments were getting out of hand and on one such day l told him that talking to him is mentally exhausting. We called each other for a few more times and our last call lasted for 8 minutes and 12 seconds, my last words to him were that l begged him to block me and go, he said okay and went. I tried to contact him and apologize but l never got any reply. Ig we'll never talk ever again and the person who meant the most to me will just become a memory 

Breakup

okay so my ex bf is now dating my brothers ex gf. man are they going to have some talks lmaoooooo 

My parents tried to break up me and my boyfriend and now me and him have to lay low. My parents don't really know my boyfriend but my boyfriend tryed to get to know them and get there trust and get approve to be with me and keep seeing me and my parents don't care. My parents keep saying that i can not see him no more becaues his a little bit older then me. I feel bad that i'm keeping me and my boyfriend relationship away from my parents now becaues that tryed to break me and him up and i get they don't thing his a good guy becaues he a befent age then me but i cant loss him and he cant loss me becaues i'm the only one he has talked to about his dads death to and he dose not trust any one but me, his mom, and his 2 friends he has been friends with scents they were every little. 

Family

So there's this guy who told me had a crush on me but now he is saying that he doesn't want to be in a relationship.
The reasoning he provided is as follows:-
yk well..
u see how we are rn right?
CHill always having fun and like we aint have anything between us to make ourselves
awkward...
BUT
Once I have a psychological image of u as my girfriend I would never ever see 
u the way I see u rn.
Same goes with you.
It ends the non-awkward feeling and I feel like once we in a relationship
we wont even talk like we talk rn.
Like u would never talk/have fun/spend time with ur boyfriend like you would
with ur friend...
and tbh people are more open towards friends than their partners.
Now a question may arise why did I make it clear bw us?
That was just to have a clear idea on how we both feel bout each other.
Cause once we truly know we both love each other 
there is no need of a tag of couples and all that shit.
Like bro... these tags are only for other people to know 
 we know how we both feel bout each other then why go and add ranks 
to it. Like I know u love me... You know I love you...
Why else should we tell anyone else if we love each other or not?
its clear between us and that's what matters..
Idk if it makes sense for u
but that is how I feel...
like relationships ends the essence of being a friend and having fun
thats what  I dont wanna loose


This is what he sent me. I don't have a crush on him or i like or love him. 
I sent this here just to get what are your views 

Crush

I feel so lost, empty, worthless, unproductive, exhausted and I'm questioning the purpose of my living. 
I'm just a simple girl before who is very passionate, joyful, creative and innocent. I'm already happy with my friends and my family, but then the world starts to open my eyes in reality. I started to drink and to come home late. But God sent me a guy who gave meaning to my life, he help me to leave my bad habits and save me from my toxic friends. We were so happy at first, but time comes that he's starting to change and he want to end up our relationship. It hurts so much because I gave everything to him, even my virginity. He promise me that he won't leave me, I believed in him because he's a good man and we're legal both sides in our family. I trust him so much that's why I depend my life on him, but I don't have a choice because he don't love me anymore, so even I beg him to stay is we still end up to break up. After that, I got back to my habits and it got worst. I drink irresponsibly and come home in the next morning. At first, I was enjoying my freedom, but when one night that there's a boy who fucked me coz I'm drunk, it boost up my insecurities. I feel so disgusting, I feel like I'm a trash and I don't know anymore. Then last night, it happened again, a guy fucked me then gone. I don't want it to happen but he was pushing me and I'm scared. I don't know anymore, I'm so ashamed to my parents. I hate myself. I don't feel to live anymore coz I think I don't deserve anything on this world. 

Take note: I'm just 18 and my family is so traditional and respectable, that's why I'm ashamed of myself.

PLEASE GIVE ME HELP. 

Depression

There's a guy who approch me first. And one of my suggested me to tell him that I'm interested in him too. So we started talking from 15th may and now yesterday, his ig friend with whom he had a quarrel few days ago came back today and sorted out things with him. And now he's ignoring my texts and calls. He was online on WhatsApp but he didn't even let my message got seen. And now suddenly a person who gave all his attention to me from almost half a month started ignoring me, I'm craving for his attention. What should I do?

3am Thoughts

This is a long message 😅

So my boyfriend and I were very serious and were moving towards the discussion of marriage, and there was some fiction and we had a huge argument on 3rd September and decided to end it, usually we would mend thing the same day but since things were getting serious between us and we both got hurt, so we didn’t speak for 3 days, and after that we tried to talk but would end up fighting more and not resolve it, both our ego clashed and even the anxious about such a big decision. We were very close and extremely in love
I know it has impacted him as much as me, after what all happened he called me and told me that he kept stalking me on social media (same as me)  i saw him swapping between apps looking where i was, yes i was online mostly but not talking to anyone but to see if he was, just to feel his presence. He thought i started talking to someone, even messaged me twice that have I started talking to someone? I told no, but yes I was constantly online, i knew it was bothering him. 
So Sunday (11th September) he didn’t come online as much, i felt something was fishy and had a feeling that he might be using a dating app to distract himself (we also met on a dating app btw 2 years ago, we both were using it for timepass in pandemic and found each other), so i installed it too, made a random account and put my location as his city and found him immediately there, he had swiped right on me so i messaged him, he sensed that distance was too much (so he said are you messaging from space and then he checked the distance and found out which city i was on) so called out that if i was messaging from a different city, so he asked me if i was looking for someone here because even he installed it initially to look for someone, he said he someone he cares for might be using this to move on, i tried to ask him few more things like are you new here and he said yes new right now but he used the account 2 years back also, then he didn’t say much and said that i should continue with the other matches because he was going through something and will probably leave in a few hours. Then I came out and said it was me and how could he be on a dating app, he got shocked and started saying he made the account to stalk me because he thought i was moving on with someone and was using dating, he said he bought the premium version to change the location and look for me (he showed me the purchase) and he had put around 7 photos of him all of which either i took of him or i was with him when he took (he even cropped me out of one photo) and even his bio was everything that we did together like, he said he loves to drive and he can talk about imd b top 100 movies, poem or classic tv shows and he also added a line of a song which i liked and made swipe right on him when we matched on a dating app 2 years ago (all these things we did together) I got so furious at him that how could he be here, to his justification that he came to find me but he had a full fledged account with photos and bio to which he said it was all that we did together so he said he thought that if i was also here and see him, id feel bad and message him to fix things (he said he made the account 2 days ago and kept deleting it, first time he said he made a random account too and he said he swiped right only on random empty accounts to see if it was me) we had huge argument and he kept saying he was there just to find me, he said he is in a very bad state because of what all was happening between us and he admitted that if he found out that i was moving on then he was also going to do the same, but he kept saying that right now he was there just to find me (said he could have blocked my number there if i didn’t want me to see him) I believe he made the account to check for me, but that time when i found him, he was not my city location, because he was surprised to find someone from so far, I know he was not, but he does not admit to it!

I understand that he was very sad and depressed, he also hadn’t slept in 5 days, but seeing him on the dating app like that has really shaken me, he deleted the account immediately and also deleted all his social media account (he did on his own, saying the he kept stalking me and it was impacting him too much), I feel replaceable finding him there but a side of me thinks maybe it was not wrong, he was depressed and didn’t know what to do, don’t know what is right

Relationships

It's been 1.5 years, we were never into a rltnshp but still everything with him was so wholesome to me!! We see each other daily and act like strangers.. He moved on but i didnt.. Jbki in the past he was into  me.. Nd for me he was jst my bstf. Now he acts lyk he dont cares..dk how.. But he moved on.. Left everyone jst to be with the memories we had.. Even ended my 3yrs. Rltnshp only for that 1.5 yrs. Frndshp.. I don't want him back..neither do i love him.. Jst want to talk to him once that what went wrong.. Ik lot of things got fucked up.. But  I was the bearer.. I lost everything.. He didn't still he acts lyk he struggled a lot.. I Dont remember him.. Jst remeber the way hi treated me .. The tym we spent together.. Andddddd how he was with me.. How happy i was with him.. Justt want to tlk to him once onlyyyy once.. I even tried  but back then he was wth some another girl..nd just refused to tlk to me..but now ig he's again single but seems lyk he's moaning for his ex..nd not for me!! What to do tried so hard to move on.. But stillllllll don't know how to get rid of all the memories

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