Ishita @ishie
I don’t know how I act pretentious and ignorant in front of people about their comments and pity looks for my disability whereas it really hurts. Few differently abled people say … we’re strong, we’re no different from other so-called “normal people” but reality is that we are different. Moreover, we are treated differently. Reading and listening to all those praising in.sta f.b posts doesn’t change the reality that is WE ARE DIFFERENT maybe not in our eyes but definitely in society’s eyes and deep down we do give shits about others’ opinions. We have to adapt to that. We have to accept that people will stare at us no matter what, they’ll shoot us pity looks, they’ll sympathise with us, they’ll ask literally ridiculous questions. Although I know it’s out of concern but that hurts.
Sometimes we just need to feel included not discriminated against.
Recent case, someone asked me “mobile chla leti ho?” Is it really a question to be asked? Then he asked “computer nhi chla pati hogi”. I was literally feeling annoyed that time cz bro what the heck?
And everybody says “iski job jaldi lag jayegi, ese logo ki bht jldi Igti” I thought “hn ye shi h pdhna likhna band kr de rahe fir, jb job lgni hi h free m to”. It’s really getting difficult for me to deal with the public now. What should I do?
Abhi @trustworthy4u
Ek.danda rakho apne sath, jab koyi kabhi aisi faaltu bakwas kare toh usme deke maarna ek do
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
It’s simple bt it’s most difficult as well just learn how to ignor them and act like nothing happened yeah i know it’s difficult bt cn try i also do this other side sometimes it’s difficult to ignor then learn how to treat that person that he or she ashamed of self that why they asked this to uh bt be polite
Ishita @ishie
🙂🙂hmm but you know I’m a very reserved person. I don’t talk much. And comebacks are literally not my thing!!!
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
But uh have to change dear. A beautiful line someone said that CHANGE IS LIFE. This helps me also. Hope this helps you too
Ishita @ishie
Hopefully 🙂
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Yeah
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Make it otherwise other make it bad fr uh
Ishita @ishie
Hmm I’m trying!!
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Best way is reading
Ishita @ishie
I’m already a big reader!!
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Like seriously 😳😳 novels or what?
Ishita @ishie
Everything!
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Likhte bhi hogy fir to
Ishita @ishie
Likhti thi ab nhi
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Ab nhi ka kya mtlb
Ishita @ishie
Mtlb ab words ni ate dimag m
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Read krte ho to words to aa h jaate hai
Ishita @ishie
Hn pr block ho jate h thoughts
Ishita @ishie
Or ate bhi hn to likhti ni unko
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Likho fir acha lgta h
Ishita @ishie
Hmm okay🙂
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Btw ho kha se?
Ishita @ishie
UP
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Okie m frm punjab
Ishita @ishie
Okay nice!!
Nwaab @bigdanwabb
Insta??
Lol I go through the same sometimes too… I guess we all do in some way…But Ignorance is truly a Bliss… the sound of silence is heard the loudest amongst the amidst … there will always be people trying to pull you down just to make themselves look bigger… But what really matters is how much you believe in yourself… It takes nothing to join the crowd, and it takes everything to stand alone… I let my work do the talking always and it helps … Anyways, it’s easier said than done I know and i hope things do get better with time… Best luck, keep Shining 🎉
Ishita @ishie
Thank you😊
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