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@sruti

I don’t know, but I feel like I have a strong connection between me and my friend. It’s like a strong bound, which I have from a long time. I don’t know what is it?
please help me out

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@v1192

How do you feel when you are around them.

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@sruti

I don’t know like I want to talk to him but I cant
like kinda mix feelings or something I don’t know
nervousness I think

@seenu

if you don’t mind I would be happy to help you out with this problem. 😄😊

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@sruti

please

@seenu

when you find that person is talking to a girl in front of you and ignoring you how do you feel

@seenu

See once you answer to this question then only I may go to the next step towards solving your problem

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@sruti

we don’t talk but when he talks to a girl then I feel like a kind of
um… angry like I want to beat that girl like I want to kick that girl out or some thing

@seenu

Sorry for answering you late.

@seenu

So as you said when he talks to a girl you feel offended. Its shows that you are quite possessive for him (Even I am like you😉).
Just think what is it that he talks to other girls and not to you so usual.
Even those girls might know him for a month or not maybe even that.

This solution might take a bit time but it do requires patience. Talk to that boy with a smile on your face make him comfortable to talk with you. You may not have any topic to talk but speak from your mind at that point don’t be so soft. Once you start talking to him it will automatically turn into a strong bond between you.
With the time it would be that he would trust you the most.

Once that type of relation you have with him then you will automatically get the answer about your feelings with him.
First be good friend with him then think of other relations.

Your mix feelings does not change your care or possessiveness for him.

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@sruti

actually, I don’t want to him and at the same time, I want to…

@seenu

If you don’t mind can you mention a bit brief please.

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@sruti

he was my childhood friend and Ummm…
We have kissed. I am too small at that time.
and now I am afraid that what will I do if he recognizes me.
What will he say? What will he do? What will I say? What will I do? These questions are only in my mind.

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@sruti

that’s why I don’t want to talk to him.

@seenu

I liked you being so honest to a stranger (Name: Shreyansh 😄).
Even I had a kissed (by mistakely)at my young age so there is no problem.
see if you go from front then there maybe a slight problem but still if you want him to remember you then just chill and do something that crazy that not only him but all of them notice you in the class.
And the kiss which because of which the whole problem you are facing no worry about it. See even i am boy and its kind of similar in boys that they do have good memory (not applying to studies) its only with the ones who are quite free or has nothing to do as such for the time.

So when you talk to him just react as in you don’t remember what happened in past just be in present and talk to him with the same way as when you use to talk to him in your childhood.
When there is better understanding of each other you would be happy with him

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@sruti

thank you (my self sruti)
But another problem it has been 12 years and he (both of us) has a lot. There are other boys with like a group (group name akdid) and they u swear words and always talk about that kind of stuff…
and I am an introvert too…

@seenu

Interesting grp name Akdid.
So if I am not wrong yo yourself think to be an introvert?
And btw where are you from

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@sruti

I’m from India
I think you too

@seenu

Yeah

@seenu

U r an introvert right?

@seenu

I mean u think so is it?

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@sruti

I am.I don’t like to talk to people face to face and don’t like to go out too

@seenu

ohkk.
See tbh even I’m an introvert but in a different case like i like talking face to face and go out but don’t like onn chats and calls.

And now when i’m talking to you I did not found u the one as in the introvert type u were mentioning, u r totally opposite as per my perspective.

See remember one thing these crapy english words are just making fool statement about someone.
Until u talk to someone u will not get the way out of this and it would be the best in itself when u talk to ur childhood friend only the very first one because the ones we had known before are the ones whom with we feel happy.
Or just atleast try once talking to someone just for 30 seconds not more then it u will feel to be open in itself.

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@sruti

he is not like always he was he is being kind of bad boy or whatever I am not saying that he is bad but the way they talk or their topic… is not good I don’t feel good talking to them

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@sruti

have insta??

@seenu

i feel u should not talk to him for time being Idk know y I just now had this thought but like Uhhhh…
Ohk See boys are like this, they have their zone of talking creepy things within their friends. He might not be same with the girls its like a tmkoc mens grp meeting at abdul shop difference is that they don’t such stuff as being matured enough.

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@sruti

Umm… i will try to talk to him but I don’t think I can it’s upon my luck. Let’s see what will happen next.
thank you for helping me out bhai

@seenu

Anytime😉. Sorry not able to answer u at the moment I had my exams so was busy with it.

See I don’t think u have mix feelings it seems quite clear that have feelings for him. So just go for it and one more thing its fine u call me bro but every person helping u is not for the sake that he/she may have some wrong intent. I got introduced to this platform just yesterday so I’m quite new and I’m just feeling happy to see and know how people thinks
and what problem they are having.

A person helping u might be a good friend, or ur angel or as u mentioned brother.
Nice to talk to u Sruti

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@sruti

no, I don’t mean that
I’m just showing my love as a sister towards you.
I don’t know your age that’s why I say you my brother. is bad to say, someone’s brother.
I’m thought u must be elder than me.

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@sruti

I’m smaller than you, I’m only giving respect and my trust towards you. And I know brother cannot hurt their sister right…

@seenu

Yeah brother can never hurt sisters😂

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@sruti

purple u❤

@seenu

?

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@sruti

haha I’m an army it means to love you
purple means love you and trust you for a long time

@seenu

So Sweet of you.

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@sruti

awww… thank you
do u know about army??

@seenu

I am bad at army and this stuff.

@seenu

But like I am happy that you are happy now. And I do feel you r no more an introvert.

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@sruti

army means who are bts fans
know about bts??

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@sruti

yes really really thank you for that

@seenu

Yes I know about BTS

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@sruti

and I’m their fan so I’m an army

@seenu

Ohh great to know that

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