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Chinu @chinuds

I don’t feel much these days.
There is this guy who is my friend and who likes me. I think I like him a little bit. And I think by giving him a chance, by coming in a relationship… I’ll start feeling emotions again. But I’m overthinking which leads to confusion and pessimism

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@sanesan

Heyy!!

I will comply with your statement that you are overthinking.
Since you wish to feel all these emotions, you may be even are thinking that you like that guy and you want to get into a relationship with him.
It’s totally fine, But just think about it, do you really like him? or you are just saying?

Do you want to feel emotions? do something for yourself.
Try to make yourself happy. Try to develop a hobby. Try to do things for your development.
you will know what accomplishing something feels like.
When you do things that you want to do, you will know what happiness feels like. and if god forbid, you get your marks, which are less than what you expect, you will feel sadness too.

So by coming into a relationship only, is not gonna give you emotions, there are plenty of other things, that you can do to feel.

I hope this helps, and you try to jot down things by introspecting on what makes you happy!

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Chinu @chinuds

Trust me when I say that I have MANY hobbies. But I just don’t have the time because I am focusing on my studies right now… Although I will definitely pick up my hobbies again real soon.
This guy, he makes me smile and laugh like no one else. The only thing I do not know is that whether I truly like him or not and whether this relationship will help me or not.

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@sanesan

Good to know, that you will be restarting them.

I guess, the way you wrote, you know what to do.
you need to first understand or know if you like this guy or not.

if he is really making you happy, then go for it, completely!

I am here to support you.
do what your heart and mind agree on.

loads of wishes!!

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