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Anonymous

I DIDN’T KNOW I WAS ADOPTED
Exactly around 2 years ago around this time I accidentally discovered that I am adopted when I was just 2 months old and my adoption parents couldn’t have babies
I found that on my 17th birthday on 3rd December 2019 ACCIDENTALLY( I’ll post the incedent too if anyone’s interested)… that I wasn’t their real child…and I was never supposed to know that
Also, I am soo soo nervous
I’M FINALLY GONNA MEET MY BIOLOGICAL MOTHER NEXT WEEK
After so much searching and finding and talking to the orphanage the agency… hundreds of people and stuff we found her… my parents have talked with her on phone but never seen her
She lives in the literally the opposite part of the country
Luckily it’s proved too that she’s my mum
I sent my samples and our DNA matched
I have so many questions for her
I just can’t wait
I really love my parents but I can’t wait to meet her…I love my mom soo much but I can’t wait to meet my birth mom…I was growing impatient over these 2 years
I heard she has a family 2 kids and she’s rich…
What If she doesn’t like me?
I also got to know that she tried to search for me a year after she left me in the orphanage but she couldn’t find anything as the orphanage wasn’t allowed to reveal any information and it wasn’t proved that she was the lady who left me
Unfortunately I don’t know anything about my father
The man she’s married to isn’t my father according to the tests
I don’t know I can’t wait to meet her I can’t to see her
Also I’m gonna post that too like how our meeting went and all
It’s just that I’M SCARED and NERVOUS

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@elie20

Have courage man… everything will go well✌️
And all the very best👍🏻👍🏻

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Anonymous

Yeah
Hope so :)

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Anonymous

It’s normal to be nervous and excited. What won’t change is - your foster parents won’t stop loving you and neither would you stop loving them. Also you have more than one mother , I’m jealous

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Anonymous

Yes
I love my parents I never thought them as my foster parents though they are
My parents will be always my first love and priority even when I meet my biological mom
What if she doesn’t accept me what if she doesn’t like me
I’m scared
Two mothers…yeah we’ll see after we meet her hope so loves me like my mum does

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Anonymous

Well , your biological mom didn’t accept you once in the past, but you still received parental love and care. My point being, your biological mom’s acceptance now means little. If you can have it in you to forgive her then forgive but do not let it decide your worth. PS : this is very similar to ZNMD.

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Anonymous

Yeah
That’s well said
She doesn’t decide my worth
And about the thing she left me in past
My adoption paper said that she wasn’t able to afford me financially so she left me for adoption
Idk
Also what’s ZNMD ?

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Anonymous

It’s a Bollywood movie 'zindagi na milegi dobara. One of the lead characters find out his biological father lives in some other country , so he decides to meet him and ask why he left him and his mom while she was pregnant with him.

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Anonymous

Ohh
Zindagi na milegi dobara
That movie has been in my watchlist since forever haha
I see why you mentioned itt

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Anonymous

Dekhlo movie . It’s a good one

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Anonymous

Yeaa

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