I did everything for my best friend and its the small gestures that count but she doesnt seem to care she only uses me when she needs me and never does anything for me 

I tried talking to her but she doesnt care

Then its time for  u to stop calling her / him your bff.

Same i dont feel the same about her anymore

Sort it out with her. Make her understand how she will feel if she is in your shoes. If she is still the same bruhh she does not deserve to be called as your bff..

3am Thoughts

I had a friend during my middle school and we were actually grp of 4. We made ourselfs as a best friend group and used to play, hangout, chill and everything. We used to be together everytime and sat on the same bench. But all of a sudden when we got to highschool that one friend got separated to another class where the rest of us happened to be in  another class. But it was okay bcz she was kind of an extrovert and there were other friends she was friendly with and they stood by her to not feel lonely. That made us feel relieved too. But as time passed we felt a gap building in between us and her. But we did things to make us connected as before. It happened so silently that none of us noticed it getting widened. She spend more time with them and later it felt like she was not anymore in our group. We still talked but knowing the fact we are having gap and that was the end. So now I'm an adult, just finished my degree and finding my job, I'm still best friends and connected to my other friends in the group except that one person. We are still friends but not same  as we used to be. I talk once in a while with her like strangers and now while remembering those sweet memories we shared when young, it hurts a little. We never expected to be parted like this. That separation had no reasons and was completely invisible. Maybe that's what hurts more. But i know life will always move like this. Not everyone will stay for ever. But those memories are still sweet as sugar. It haven't lost it's flavour.

Adulting

I am tired of being a second choice in the lives people i love. I always put them on priority while i am always treated as an option. My "best friend" now ghosts me for hours or even days while i almost always instantly text back no matter what. I can't even tell them how much this stuff hurts me although I've told her that i don't like it when she does this. No one cares about my feelings while i always handle others' very carefully. I don't know what have i done to deserve this 😞

so me and my friend have been friends forever and she recently has been overprotective when she sees me with other people and even saying she is going to hurt herself if I don't stop hanging out with them so I asked her what was wrong and she told me she had feelings for me so I told her ill need a day or two so she said ok. I truly liked her back but because of the behavior she had I can imagine what behavior she would have in a relationship but after a day I told her I liked her back but by that time she said she had a, girlfriend, i was shocked she introduced me and all so after I told her we should cut ties because she had a girlfriend. but she had so-called feelings for me she agreed to cut ties but after a few days she kept on texting me and showing up at my house I told her I was uncomfortable and could she please stop she did stop showing up at my house but she kept texting me from different accounts and numbers. I'm i the bad person?

Jealous

I have a gf , she is the sweetest most beautiful girl.i love her soo much i cant tell u. But i have a problem i overthink soo much.
I dont have many friends due to covid i dont have a job no money no friends to talk to. Soo i delend soo much on her to fix me and my anxiety. I know its not right to put soo much pressure on her.
She had not many friends until recently,  now.she has a new group they seem to be good people its just whenever she taljs to them she enjoys it soo much i just get soo mad. I just hate it when she talks to them. Idfk why maybe i am jealous?
I had 3 very good friends (bffs if u may)
But they are so distant now geographically and emotionally , i used to enjoy talijng to them now no one even texts for months om end , they found new people to call bff but i found not a single new friend. I just feel sooo sad about my life its so shit rn.
Idfk what to do. I feel so hopeless its soo hard living like this. Its takes soo much effort to even strt doing something.i domt want to rely on my gf anymore it just makes me feel like such a baggage on her. She seems to be doing fine and when i talk about myself sje gets a little sad and it feels like i live such a sad life. I dont want her to know how down i really am.idk 
I used to be such a confident. Ik i can do shit but its just not going my way it keeps getting worse i domt evem habe good clothes to wear when i talk to her she talks with me. I feel like she is always wary that i will have another panic attack to get mad at something or another. It just makes me loathe myself evem more for making her feel such a way.


Relationships

Been feeling a lot down since last night. Had a pretty bad fight with one of my closest friends. I didn't even wanna tell her what i was feeling because i knew that we would end up fighting, i even told her but she said i promise we won't fight but in the end we did. It's a second bad fight in as many weeks. Whenever i express my emotions and feelings we end up fighting. She said i purposely do this to hurt her even though i literally told her to let it be, but she forced me into starting the topic.
Our relationship is fractured big time now and i never thought I'd have to see this day because loved her and did everything for her. 

Why are best friends so special? Earlier I used to write essays, speeches and quotes... but now I just can't thank God enough for giving me my bestie, my soulmate in the form of a hostel roommate.. She is just like Geet from Jab we Met.. lights up everybody's world, but when she is sad, she will make everybody upset with her sadness. I just love her, even more than my bf.. I know at one time, my bf won't be there for me.. but she was always there and she will always be there with me..
A few years back we had some misunderstandings that led to some differences between us, and we decided to leave the hostel. Since then, we are not roommates.. but our friendship came back even stronger... Oh god, why are best friends so special and caring? I love her and I miss her so much during the pandemic.. <3

Friends

What does true friendship looks like ?👀

Confusion

hey, 
so i have a friends and we've been friends for a very long time like more than ten years. 
and one day she texted me and she was complaining about her parents so i told her that her parents were right and she got pissed and said i dont ever support her i mean  i obviously dont want anything bad for her right and we did not talk for a little more than a week and when i tried texting her she didnt reply she came online a few times after i texted her but she did not reply. so basically i sent her a message on snapchat but she did not reply and all she sent me was a snap to maintain the streaks and it makes me feel horrible. i feel like im not a good friend and shes like my best friend and it just makes me angry and sad. 
idek what to do now cause i only have 2 goos friends and i really dont want to lose her
i mean i put the efforts and initiated the conversation but seems like she doesnt even care anymore.

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