I confessed my feelings to a guy I liked for almost 7 years , over the text. I know he had 2 relationships but he told me that he also had feelings for me and said he knew that i’ve liked him since 4 years then asked me go out with him I said no bcz I just wanted to confess and he also didn’t seem serious them he told me to do his assignment he Was bringing that assignment part over and over. I was trying to confess properly and wanted to know more about how he felt blah blah so basically now he knows that I’ve liked him . but I don’t think that he cares bcz after that he never responded to my texts about what I told him that day he was casual as usual over d massages but the thing that confuses me the most when I walk pass him he would watch obviously but he keep looking unless I’m outta sight but maintain his silence. he hears my voice, comes outta his home, keep moving in front me while talking over the phone u can easily tell by his ways he is trying to garb my attention , and .i don’t know what is this? it’s rejection or he is happy to have my attention and don’t want to commit bcz in reality he doesn’t feel the same idk? may be he is just enjoying the idea that I was into him? help me understand
uday gupta @uday95577
He is enjoying to make you feel like that… And that assignment part he was using your feelings to make you do his work… I think he was lying to you about his feelings for you bcz if you love someone no matter how busy you are when you will see that person in real you will try to have a little conversation… but he just passed… so i think you should also move on and try to find another man with good and pure heart
it’s hard yr I saw him today my heart dropped when I realise that he is coming towards me. I didn’t look tho I just saw from the side eye lol but… I’m trying😞
Don’t invest yourself in him. If he was interested in your he would have done something about it. He just want to get some attention. I know it will be hard but trust me you will get over him. You deserve so much better. Don’t lower your expectations for someone like him.
u r right
Sorry to say but he’s just wooing you with wrong intentions nothing else. If he loved you or wanted any kind of relationship with you then by now he would have taken some positive steps.
He know very well. That you like him. Since so many years. So he’s just pretending and showing to you that he notices you and gives you attention. Because he knows you’ll feel butterflies and you’ll think and think just about him.
So please stay away from him if you want something serious.
But if you want just casual dating and having fun then it’s okay to think about him
Move on! How are you sacrificing your own self worth to someone like him!! Givers should set the limit coz takers don’t have any. Stop being so kind and wasting your love on such people. Love yourself more, true love will naturally come into your life when you love yourself and take care of yourself. Become a stong hearted if you have to but set your boundaries high for somedays, months or even for a year if you have to but MOVE ON!
Ask him to talk about a fake problem you have in your family. If he is really interested in you, he would hear you calmly and if he doesn’t, just tell him to go out of your life.
This way you will neither harm your emotions nor you will be cheated for long. Hope it helps.
He’s a player…stay away from him